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A tweet went viral this month, nearly 19
 

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A tweet went viral this month, nearly 19
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million views. It said, "Want a happy
 

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million views. It said, "Want a happy
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relationship? Get you an autistic
 

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relationship? Get you an autistic
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girlfriend." and had this video attached
 

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girlfriend." and had this video attached
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to it. Can I go and get some snacks?
 

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to it. Can I go and get some snacks?
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Sure. But can I get this? Sure. I'm just
 

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Sure. But can I get this? Sure. I'm just
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going to get some water.
 

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going to get some water.
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It's a hot day.
 

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It's a hot day.
Huh?

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Huh?
 

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Huh?
Sorry.

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Sorry.
 

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Sorry.
Yeah.

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Yeah.
 

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Yeah.
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We need to talk about this. But first,
 

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We need to talk about this. But first,
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this video is brought to you by our
 

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this video is brought to you by our
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friends at Lelo.
 

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friends at Lelo.
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Lelo are running a giveaway with me
 

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Lelo are running a giveaway with me
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where everyone who enters wins. Yes,
 

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where everyone who enters wins. Yes,
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including you watching this video. You
 

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including you watching this video. You
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can get either a free toy or a gift card
 

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can get either a free toy or a gift card
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towards one. No purchase necessary, no
 

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towards one. No purchase necessary, no
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strings attached. Last time we ran this,
 

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strings attached. Last time we ran this,
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gift cards and free good vibes went out
 

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gift cards and free good vibes went out
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to quite a lot of you. So, let's do it
 

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to quite a lot of you. So, let's do it
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again. If you saw our first
 

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again. If you saw our first
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collaboration, you'll know that I
 

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collaboration, you'll know that I
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actually took one of these toys into the
 

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actually took one of these toys into the
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sea. Lelo tell me that their devices are
 

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sea. Lelo tell me that their devices are
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waterproof. Well, I know where there's
 

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waterproof. Well, I know where there's
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some water, so let's go test it out.
 

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some water, so let's go test it out.
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Fully submerged, full power, salt water,
 

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Fully submerged, full power, salt water,
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the lot, and it survived. Without a
 

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the lot, and it survived. Without a
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scratch. These things are genuinely
 

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scratch. These things are genuinely
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well-built. The charging cases also look
 

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well-built. The charging cases also look
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like something you'd keep your
 

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like something you'd keep your
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sunglasses in, and the packaging is so
 

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sunglasses in, and the packaging is so
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discreet that your postie won't have a
 

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discreet that your postie won't have a
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clue what's hiding inside. Lelo also
 

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clue what's hiding inside. Lelo also
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have a wide range for all kinds of body
 

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have a wide range for all kinds of body
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types, with toys for women and men and a
 

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types, with toys for women and men and a
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dedicated LGBTQ+ section. It is
 

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dedicated LGBTQ+ section. It is
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genuinely inclusive, which on a channel
 

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genuinely inclusive, which on a channel
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about neurodiversity,
 

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about neurodiversity,
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feels right. Lelo have also sent me
 

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feels right. Lelo have also sent me
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their new Halo 2. It can be a couple's
 

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their new Halo 2. It can be a couple's
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toy, it can be a solo toy, but it's
 

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toy, it can be a solo toy, but it's
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designed to be worn during intimacy. It
 

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designed to be worn during intimacy. It
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is stronger, quieter, and longer-lasting
 

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is stronger, quieter, and longer-lasting
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than the previous version, and the whole
 

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than the previous version, and the whole
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point of it is that both partners
 

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point of it is that both partners
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benefit at the same time. Relationship
 

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benefit at the same time. Relationship
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goals, am I right? The giveaway link is
 

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goals, am I right? The giveaway link is
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in the description and in the pinned
 

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in the description and in the pinned
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comment. Go sign up, treat yourself, and
 

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comment. Go sign up, treat yourself, and
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let's talk about why TikTok has decided
 

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let's talk about why TikTok has decided
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that autism is a dating category. This
 

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that autism is a dating category. This
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is the TikTok that was attached to the
 

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is the TikTok that was attached to the
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tweet.
 

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I know we came for snacks, but can I get
 

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I know we came for snacks, but can I get
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this? Sure. Really? Yeah.
 

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this? Sure. Really? Yeah.
&gt;&gt; Okay.

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&gt;&gt; Okay.
 

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&gt;&gt; Okay.
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Do you like these? Okay, first thing.
 

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Do you like these? Okay, first thing.
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Why is this filmed from above? Is her
 

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Why is this filmed from above? Is her
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boyfriend really 7-ft tall, or is she
 

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boyfriend really 7-ft tall, or is she
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being supervised by a CCTV camera in
 

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being supervised by a CCTV camera in
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Tesco's? It's cuz these are my favorite.
 

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Tesco's? It's cuz these are my favorite.
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Do you want to pick one?
 

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Do you want to pick one?
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Sure. Which one do you want? Sour Patch
 

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Sure. Which one do you want? Sour Patch
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Kids? Sour Patch Kids are pretty good,
 

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Kids? Sour Patch Kids are pretty good,
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but only if I can eat all the blue ones.
 

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but only if I can eat all the blue ones.
Deal.

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Deal.
 

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Deal.
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I'm going to get apple juice. I I know
 

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I'm going to get apple juice. I I know
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you said that I shouldn't drink more
 

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you said that I shouldn't drink more
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water, but I'm just going to get some
 

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water, but I'm just going to get some
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water.
 

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water.
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It's a hot day.
 

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It's a hot day.
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And she's asking if she can buy juice,
 

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And she's asking if she can buy juice,
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juice from a shop, as if she's on a
 

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juice from a shop, as if she's on a
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school trip and forgot [laughter] her
 

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school trip and forgot [laughter] her
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packed lunch money.
 

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packed lunch money.
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Do you remember Bluey? Yeah. I think it
 

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Do you remember Bluey? Yeah. I think it
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I actually have this. I know you do.
 

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I actually have this. I know you do.
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&gt;&gt; Yeah, how many times have I asked you
 

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&gt;&gt; Yeah, how many times have I asked you
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this? I think you have.
 

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this? I think you have.
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Do you want to get a Minecraft Lego set
 

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Do you want to get a Minecraft Lego set
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that we can build together? That was
 

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that we can build together? That was
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awesome. Okay.
 

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awesome. Okay.
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This one?
 

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This one?
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Sure. Thanks for going with me. I'm
 

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Sure. Thanks for going with me. I'm
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excited to build our Lego. Yeah, me too.
 

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excited to build our Lego. Yeah, me too.
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And look at the basket. Someone on X
 

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And look at the basket. Someone on X
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pointed this out, and I think it's
 

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pointed this out, and I think it's
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genuinely worth showing you.
 

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genuinely worth showing you.
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Candy, juice, toys, the entire basket is
 

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Candy, juice, toys, the entire basket is
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catered to childhood. The entire basket
 

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catered to childhood. The entire basket
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looks like what you'd buy a 7-year-old
 

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looks like what you'd buy a 7-year-old
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at a service station on her way to her
 

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at a service station on her way to her
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nan's. The original content creator's
 

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nan's. The original content creator's
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bio even says "Autism awareness and
 

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bio even says "Autism awareness and
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advocacy."
 

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advocacy."
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Awareness of what exactly? That autistic
 

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Awareness of what exactly? That autistic
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women enjoy juice? Groundbreaking
 

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women enjoy juice? Groundbreaking
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science that. I also enjoy juice, by the
 

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science that. I also enjoy juice, by the
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way, and nobody's filming me buying it
 

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way, and nobody's filming me buying it
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from a [laughter] from a helicopter
 

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from a [laughter] from a helicopter
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angle. The whole thing looks less like a
 

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angle. The whole thing looks less like a
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relationship and more like an escort
 

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relationship and more like an escort
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mission in a video game. You know, like
 

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mission in a video game. You know, like
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in Skyrim where an NPC is just stopping
 

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in Skyrim where an NPC is just stopping
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you
&gt;&gt; [laughter]

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
 

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
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&gt;&gt; and you're just like, "Move out of the
 

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&gt;&gt; and you're just like, "Move out of the
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way." Because this TikTok was picked up
 

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way." Because this TikTok was picked up
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by a guy on X called @willattract,
 

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by a guy on X called @willattract,
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and we'll come back to him. And his
 

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and we'll come back to him. And his
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tweet says, "Want a happy relationship?
 

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tweet says, "Want a happy relationship?
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Get you an autistic girlfriend." and he
 

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Get you an autistic girlfriend." and he
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attached the TikTok that we just
 

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attached the TikTok that we just
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watched.
 

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watched.
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And nearly 19 million people saw this.
 

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And nearly 19 million people saw this.
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To put that into perspective, that's
 

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To put that into perspective, that's
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more than the population of the
 

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more than the population of the
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Netherlands. 19 million people watched a
 

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Netherlands. 19 million people watched a
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woman ask permission to buy juice and
 

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woman ask permission to buy juice and
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thought, "Yeah. Yeah, that's
 

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thought, "Yeah. Yeah, that's
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relationship goals." Oh, and there is a
 

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relationship goals." Oh, and there is a
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community note on this tweet. Nobody
 

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community note on this tweet. Nobody
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reads community notes, but you should
 

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reads community notes, but you should
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read this one, and we'll come back to it
 

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read this one, and we'll come back to it
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later because it's uh it's a plot twist.
 

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later because it's uh it's a plot twist.
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I went looking because that's what I do.
 

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I went looking because that's what I do.
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I went down a rabbit hole expecting to
 

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I went down a rabbit hole expecting to
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find maybe a couple of articles and a
 

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find maybe a couple of articles and a
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Reddit thread. What I found was worse.
 

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Reddit thread. What I found was worse.
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This post is from r/autisminwomen,
 

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This post is from r/autisminwomen,
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roughly mid-2025. The title is, "What is
 

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roughly mid-2025. The title is, "What is
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this trend of saying that you're looking
 

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this trend of saying that you're looking
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for a low-key autistic girl on dating
 

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for a low-key autistic girl on dating
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apps?" These women were noticing the
 

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apps?" These women were noticing the
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pattern before it went viral.
 

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pattern before it went viral.
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The top comment with 1.2 thousand
 

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The top comment with 1.2 thousand
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upvotes says, "The manic pixie dream
 

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upvotes says, "The manic pixie dream
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girl archetype is nothing new. This is
 

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girl archetype is nothing new. This is
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just a rebranding for them. Odds are
 

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just a rebranding for them. Odds are
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high that they would actually hate being
 

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high that they would actually hate being
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with an actually autistic woman."
 

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with an actually autistic woman."
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And the reply underneath, "They'll love
 

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it until they're held accountable for a
 

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it until they're held accountable for a
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sense of justice or equity, or until
 

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sense of justice or equity, or until
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being quirky is inconvenient."
 

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being quirky is inconvenient."
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That one hit me because that is the
 

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That one hit me because that is the
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pattern, isn't it? That people really
 

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pattern, isn't it? That people really
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loving a quirk or calling it calling
 

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loving a quirk or calling it calling
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cute or adorable or whatever up until
 

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cute or adorable or whatever up until
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the time that it actually costs them
 

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the time that it actually costs them
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something. I don't want to bore you, but
 

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something. I don't want to bore you, but
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I I have so many stories
 

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I I have so many stories
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from jobs, from friendships, from
 

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from jobs, from friendships, from
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relationships
 

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relationships
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where where people think, "Oh,
 

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where where people think, "Oh,
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that's an adorable trait."
 

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that's an adorable trait."
&gt;&gt; [laughter]

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
 

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
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&gt;&gt; And then a little while later, it it's
 

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&gt;&gt; And then a little while later, it it's
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not so not so fun. And so, here are the
 

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not so not so fun. And so, here are the
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actual Hinge profiles. Real screenshots.
 

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actual Hinge profiles. Real screenshots.
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Like, "I go crazy for slightly autistic
 

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women." or "Looking for a woman with a
 

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women." or "Looking for a woman with a
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touch of autism." A touch of autism.
 

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touch of autism." A touch of autism.
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Um eau d'autisme, like it's a fragrance,
 

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Um eau d'autisme, like it's a fragrance,
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you know, available at Boots.
 

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you know, available at Boots.
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"I go crazy for women with just a
 

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"I go crazy for women with just a
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sprinkle of autism. Not too much." Just
 

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sprinkle of autism. Not too much." Just
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like a seasoning, a little bit of
 

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like a seasoning, a little bit of
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mustard. Like a paprika on a chip. Or or
 

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mustard. Like a paprika on a chip. Or or
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just enough autism to make it quirky,
 

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just enough autism to make it quirky,
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but not enough to require me to, you
 

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but not enough to require me to, you
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know, actually try and support her. The
 

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know, actually try and support her. The
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Prospect journalist who collected these
 

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Prospect journalist who collected these
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said the sheer amount of slightly
 

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said the sheer amount of slightly
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autistic women on Hinge profiles was
 

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autistic women on Hinge profiles was
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also shocking,
 

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also shocking,
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and I believe her. This story has been
 

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and I believe her. This story has been
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covered already by multiple outlets now.
 

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covered already by multiple outlets now.
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Dazed ran a piece in October 2025 called
 

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Dazed ran a piece in October 2025 called
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"Why are men fetishizing autistic women
 

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"Why are men fetishizing autistic women
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on dating apps?" They spoke to Milly
 

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on dating apps?" They spoke to Milly
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Evans, who's an autistic sex educator,
 

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Evans, who's an autistic sex educator,
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and said something that I think is worth
 

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and said something that I think is worth
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hearing. She said that men who express
 

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hearing. She said that men who express
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this preference either don't know what
 

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this preference either don't know what
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autism is or want to attract someone
 

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autism is or want to attract someone
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that they perceive as more vulnerable.
 

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that they perceive as more vulnerable.
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An absurd number of men on dating apps
 

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An absurd number of men on dating apps
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are saying that they're looking for a
 

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are saying that they're looking for a
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slightly autistic woman or a mildly
 

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slightly autistic woman or a mildly
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autistic girl, some variation on that.
 

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autistic girl, some variation on that.
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I've been using dating apps since I was
 

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I've been using dating apps since I was
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18, and I've noticed there's a group of
 

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18, and I've noticed there's a group of
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men who every couple of years choose a
 

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men who every couple of years choose a
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different condition to use as their
 

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different condition to use as their
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quirky little Hinge prompts. And a few
 

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quirky little Hinge prompts. And a few
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years ago, it would have been things
 

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years ago, it would have been things
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like personality disorders, anxiety, low
 

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like personality disorders, anxiety, low
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self-esteem. The last couple of years,
 

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self-esteem. The last couple of years,
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they've been looking for girls on
 

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they've been looking for girls on
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sertraline, and this year it's shifted
 

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sertraline, and this year it's shifted
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to looking for slightly autistic women,
 

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to looking for slightly autistic women,
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whatever that means.
 

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whatever that means.
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&gt;&gt; Crystal Callow, writing for the Bristol
 

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&gt;&gt; Crystal Callow, writing for the Bristol
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student paper Epigram, said she saw
 

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student paper Epigram, said she saw
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slightly autistic women so often on
 

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slightly autistic women so often on
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Hinge that it went from feeling novel to
 

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Hinge that it went from feeling novel to
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feeling like cultural regression. Her
 

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feeling like cultural regression. Her
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headline was, "My autism should not be
 

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headline was, "My autism should not be
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why you want to date me." which, yeah, I
 

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why you want to date me." which, yeah, I
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mean, that about covers it, right? Tism
 

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mean, that about covers it, right? Tism
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res, if you like, sort of started as a
 

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res, if you like, sort of started as a
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community in-joke. It was autistic
 

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community in-joke. It was autistic
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people going, "Yeah, I accidentally
 

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people going, "Yeah, I accidentally
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charmed someone by info-dumping about
 

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charmed someone by info-dumping about
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marine biology for 45 minutes, and
 

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marine biology for 45 minutes, and
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apparently that was attractive." It it
 

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apparently that was attractive." It it
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was a self-aware joke, it was funny,
 

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was a self-aware joke, it was funny,
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it was part of the community. And then,
 

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it was part of the community. And then,
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neurotypical men found it and went,
 

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neurotypical men found it and went,
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"Ooh, I'd like one of those." and turned
 

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"Ooh, I'd like one of those." and turned
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it into a category on a dating app, a
 

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it into a category on a dating app, a
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bit like ordering from a menu. So, this
 

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bit like ordering from a menu. So, this
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has been building for months. Autistic
 

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has been building for months. Autistic
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women spotted it first, journalists
 

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women spotted it first, journalists
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documented it, and a pickup artist
 

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documented it, and a pickup artist
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blasted it to 19 million people.
 

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blasted it to 19 million people.
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But what does slightly autistic mean
 

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But what does slightly autistic mean
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when somebody puts it on a dating
 

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when somebody puts it on a dating
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profile? Because I think that's worth
 

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profile? Because I think that's worth
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translating
 

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before we get to the the juicy bit.
 

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before we get to the the juicy bit.
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When someone writes slightly autistic on
 

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When someone writes slightly autistic on
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their dating profile, here's what
 

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their dating profile, here's what
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they're actually shopping for, and I do
 

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they're actually shopping for, and I do
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mean shopping because this is
 

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mean shopping because this is
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transactional. They want directness, but
 

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transactional. They want directness, but
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they read that as no drama. Now, I'm
 

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they read that as no drama. Now, I'm
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direct, most autistic people I know are,
 

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direct, most autistic people I know are,
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but it's not because we're easy to be
 

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but it's not because we're easy to be
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around, it's because we don't
 

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around, it's because we don't
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necessarily have the processing
 

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necessarily have the processing
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bandwidth to lie to you and then to
 

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bandwidth to lie to you and then to
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remember the lie later. They want
 

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remember the lie later. They want
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loyalty, intense focus on the
 

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loyalty, intense focus on the
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relationship, and many of us do that. A
 

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relationship, and many of us do that. A
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relationship itself can become an
 

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relationship itself can become an
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all-encompassing passion, a a so-called
 

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all-encompassing passion, a a so-called
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special interest. When we care about
 

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special interest. When we care about
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someone, we can really care. The she's
 

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someone, we can really care. The she's
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not like other girls. And of course,
 

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not like other girls. And of course,
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she's not like other girls because she's
 

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she's not like other girls because she's
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autistic, mate.
 

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autistic, mate.
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Okay? So,
 

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Okay? So,
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they also want social awkwardness. Now,
 

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they also want social awkwardness. Now,
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this is because they read it as an
 

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this is because they read it as an
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innocence, a a childlike harmlessness.
 

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innocence, a a childlike harmlessness.
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This is actually darker than it sounds.
 

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This is actually darker than it sounds.
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What they're actually selecting for is
 

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What they're actually selecting for is
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low social power, fewer friends who
 

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low social power, fewer friends who
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might tell her that she deserves better.
 

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might tell her that she deserves better.
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Does that make sense? These are the
 

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Does that make sense? These are the
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things being selected for.
 

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things being selected for.
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And here's the things that they're
 

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And here's the things that they're
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selecting against. Why not? Because they
 

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selecting against. Why not? Because they
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don't want to deal with meltdowns and
 

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don't want to deal with meltdowns and
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shutdowns. They don't want to deal with
 

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shutdowns. They don't want to deal with
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sensory overload or executive
 

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sensory overload or executive
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functioning difficulties, or someone in
 

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functioning difficulties, or someone in
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chronic burnout, visible stimming that
 

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chronic burnout, visible stimming that
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could be embarrassing to them, perhaps,
 

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could be embarrassing to them, perhaps,
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or someone with strong boundaries or
 

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or someone with strong boundaries or
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resistance to coercion, and anything
 

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resistance to coercion, and anything
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that requires actual patience, actual
 

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that requires actual patience, actual
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effort, or actual accommodation.
 

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effort, or actual accommodation.
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They want the bits that benefit them,
 

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They want the bits that benefit them,
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and they don't want the bits that cost
 

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and they don't want the bits that cost
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them anything.
 

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them anything.
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Remember what that Reddit comment said
 

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Remember what that Reddit comment said
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earlier? They will love it until being
 

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earlier? They will love it until being
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quirky is inconvenient.
 

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quirky is inconvenient.
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That's what inconvenient looks like. And
 

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That's what inconvenient looks like. And
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that's literally the list. Slightly
 

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that's literally the list. Slightly
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autistic doesn't mean I understand
 

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autistic doesn't mean I understand
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autistic women, it means I want a narrow
 

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autistic women, it means I want a narrow
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curated version of autism that benefits
 

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curated version of autism that benefits
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me. They are creating something akin to
 

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me. They are creating something akin to
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a software specification for a power
 

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a software specification for a power
imbalance.<00:10:12.600><c> So,</c><00:10:12.720><c> who</c><00:10:12.960><c> is</c><00:10:13.160><c> spreading</c><00:10:13.480><c> this</c><00:10:13.760><c> to</c>

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imbalance. So, who is spreading this to
 

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imbalance. So, who is spreading this to
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19 million people? His handle is will
 

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19 million people? His handle is will
attract<00:10:17.120><c> as</c><00:10:17.320><c> in</c>

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attract as in
 

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attract as in
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will attract women. His bio says, I'll
 

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will attract women. His bio says, I'll
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either teach you something or piss you
 

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either teach you something or piss you
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off. His pinned tweet uses the word
 

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off. His pinned tweet uses the word
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frame, which if you're not familiar is
 

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frame, which if you're not familiar is
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red pill language. It's pick up artist
 

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red pill language. It's pick up artist
terminology.<00:10:29.880><c> His</c><00:10:30.040><c> content</c><00:10:30.880><c> is</c><00:10:31.680><c> pick</c><00:10:31.880><c> up</c>

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terminology. His content is pick up
 

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terminology. His content is pick up
lines,<00:10:32.880><c> song</c><00:10:33.200><c> lyrics</c><00:10:33.520><c> as</c><00:10:33.680><c> seduction</c><00:10:34.240><c> tools,</c>

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lines, song lyrics as seduction tools,
 

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lines, song lyrics as seduction tools,
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and how to control the dynamic with
 

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and how to control the dynamic with
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women. This isn't some random bloke just
 

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women. This isn't some random bloke just
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sharing a cute video of his girlfriend.
 

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sharing a cute video of his girlfriend.
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This is a pickup artist. His whole
 

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This is a pickup artist. His whole
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account is how to attract women using
 

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account is how to attract women using
psychological<00:10:49.400><c> leverage.</c><00:10:50.240><c> He</c><00:10:50.360><c> just</c><00:10:50.720><c> packaged</c>

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psychological leverage. He just packaged
 

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psychological leverage. He just packaged
autism<00:10:52.000><c> as</c><00:10:52.160><c> a</c><00:10:52.200><c> dating</c><00:10:52.600><c> hack</c><00:10:53.160><c> for</c><00:10:53.320><c> 19</c><00:10:54.120><c> million</c>

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autism as a dating hack for 19 million
 

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autism as a dating hack for 19 million
people.<00:10:55.440><c> And</c><00:10:55.560><c> when</c><00:10:55.680><c> autistic</c><00:10:56.040><c> people</c><00:10:56.640><c> pushed</c>

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people. And when autistic people pushed
 

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people. And when autistic people pushed
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back, which some of them did, the
 

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back, which some of them did, the
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replies filled with people saying this
 

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replies filled with people saying this
is<00:11:01.839><c> infantilizing,</c><00:11:02.839><c> that</c><00:11:03.000><c> this</c><00:11:03.160><c> is</c>

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is infantilizing, that this is
 

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is infantilizing, that this is
dangerous,<00:11:04.000><c> and</c><00:11:04.120><c> this</c><00:11:04.240><c> is</c><00:11:04.360><c> not</c><00:11:04.520><c> what</c><00:11:04.640><c> autism</c>

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dangerous, and this is not what autism
 

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dangerous, and this is not what autism
looks<00:11:05.160><c> like.</c><00:11:05.960><c> If</c><00:11:06.080><c> any</c><00:11:06.200><c> of</c><00:11:06.240><c> you</c><00:11:06.360><c> watched</c>

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looks like. If any of you watched
 

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looks like. If any of you watched
recently<00:11:07.160><c> Louis</c><00:11:07.440><c> Theroux's</c><00:11:08.120><c> Inside</c><00:11:08.600><c> the</c>

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recently Louis Theroux's Inside the
 

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recently Louis Theroux's Inside the
Manosphere<00:11:09.160><c> documentary</c><00:11:09.640><c> on</c><00:11:09.760><c> Netflix,</c><00:11:10.240><c> it</c>

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Manosphere documentary on Netflix, it
 

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Manosphere documentary on Netflix, it
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hit number one in the same week as this
 

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hit number one in the same week as this
tweet,<00:11:13.600><c> and</c><00:11:13.720><c> you'll</c><00:11:13.839><c> recognize</c><00:11:14.400><c> the</c>

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tweet, and you'll recognize the
 

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tweet, and you'll recognize the
playbook.<00:11:15.400><c> Women</c><00:11:16.080><c> as</c><00:11:16.320><c> commodities,</c>

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playbook. Women as commodities,
 

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playbook. Women as commodities,
vulnerability<00:11:18.440><c> as</c><00:11:18.600><c> an</c><00:11:18.680><c> attractive</c><00:11:19.280><c> feature.</c>

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vulnerability as an attractive feature.
 

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vulnerability as an attractive feature.
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One of the influencers in that
 

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One of the influencers in that
documentary<00:11:21.560><c> called</c><00:11:21.800><c> a</c><00:11:21.839><c> woman</c><00:11:22.400><c> that</c><00:11:22.480><c> he</c>

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documentary called a woman that he
 

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documentary called a woman that he
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claims to love in his living room is
 

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claims to love in his living room is
dishwasher.<00:11:24.839><c> That's</c><00:11:25.120><c> the</c><00:11:25.240><c> culture</c><00:11:25.640><c> that</c><00:11:25.760><c> this</c>

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dishwasher. That's the culture that this
 

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dishwasher. That's the culture that this
comes<00:11:26.280><c> from.</c><00:11:26.760><c> It's</c><00:11:26.880><c> an</c><00:11:27.040><c> audience</c><00:11:28.000><c> of</c><00:11:28.200><c> young,</c>

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comes from. It's an audience of young,
 

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comes from. It's an audience of young,
impressionable<00:11:29.600><c> men</c><00:11:30.200><c> being</c><00:11:30.440><c> told</c><00:11:31.000><c> that</c><00:11:31.240><c> this</c>

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impressionable men being told that this
 

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impressionable men being told that this
behavior<00:11:31.960><c> is</c><00:11:32.080><c> normal.</c>

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behavior is normal.
 

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behavior is normal.
And<00:11:33.400><c> here's</c><00:11:33.520><c> the</c><00:11:33.600><c> thing</c><00:11:33.680><c> that</c><00:11:33.760><c> makes</c><00:11:33.920><c> it</c>

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And here's the thing that makes it
 

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And here's the thing that makes it
worse.<00:11:35.000><c> There's</c><00:11:35.240><c> a</c><00:11:35.320><c> vacuum</c><00:11:35.880><c> because</c><00:11:36.240><c> almost</c>

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worse. There's a vacuum because almost
 

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worse. There's a vacuum because almost
no<00:11:37.240><c> healthy</c><00:11:38.000><c> sex-positive</c><00:11:38.760><c> male</c><00:11:39.000><c> voices</c>

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no healthy sex-positive male voices
 

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no healthy sex-positive male voices
online<00:11:40.120><c> are</c><00:11:40.200><c> talking</c><00:11:40.600><c> about</c><00:11:40.839><c> relationships.</c>

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online are talking about relationships.
 

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online are talking about relationships.
So,<00:11:42.240><c> where</c><00:11:42.480><c> do</c><00:11:42.880><c> young</c><00:11:43.200><c> men</c><00:11:43.440><c> go</c><00:11:43.760><c> for</c><00:11:43.880><c> guidance?</c>

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So, where do young men go for guidance?
 

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So, where do young men go for guidance?
To<00:11:45.200><c> pornography,</c><00:11:45.920><c> which</c><00:11:46.120><c> is</c><00:11:46.360><c> mostly</c>

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To pornography, which is mostly
 

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To pornography, which is mostly
unrealistic<00:11:47.440><c> fantasy,</c><00:11:48.240><c> or</c><00:11:48.480><c> to</c><00:11:48.960><c> the</c>

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unrealistic fantasy, or to the
 

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unrealistic fantasy, or to the
manosphere,<00:11:50.400><c> which</c><00:11:50.640><c> is</c><00:11:50.720><c> exploitative</c><00:11:52.000><c> by</c>

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manosphere, which is exploitative by
 

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manosphere, which is exploitative by
design.<00:11:53.400><c> And</c><00:11:53.720><c> this</c><00:11:53.920><c> tweet</c><00:11:54.280><c> sits</c><00:11:54.560><c> perfectly</c><00:11:55.520><c> on</c>

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design. And this tweet sits perfectly on
 

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design. And this tweet sits perfectly on
that<00:11:55.880><c> intersection.</c><00:11:56.839><c> X</c><00:11:57.080><c> users</c><00:11:57.520><c> added</c><00:11:58.000><c> a</c>

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that intersection. X users added a
 

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that intersection. X users added a
community<00:11:58.560><c> note</c><00:11:58.760><c> to</c><00:11:58.800><c> the</c><00:11:58.920><c> tweet,</c><00:11:59.440><c> and</c><00:11:59.960><c> very</c>

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community note to the tweet, and very
 

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community note to the tweet, and very
few<00:12:00.400><c> people</c><00:12:00.680><c> seem</c><00:12:00.839><c> to</c><00:12:00.960><c> read</c><00:12:01.160><c> community</c><00:12:01.520><c> notes,</c>

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few people seem to read community notes,
 

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few people seem to read community notes,
but<00:12:01.960><c> you</c><00:12:02.040><c> should</c><00:12:02.200><c> absolutely</c><00:12:02.640><c> read</c><00:12:02.800><c> this</c><00:12:03.000><c> one.</c>

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but you should absolutely read this one.
 

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but you should absolutely read this one.
And<00:12:03.880><c> it</c><00:12:04.040><c> says,</c><00:12:04.480><c> and</c><00:12:04.600><c> I</c><00:12:04.680><c> quote,</c><00:12:05.600><c> "This</c><00:12:05.839><c> is</c><00:12:05.960><c> an</c><00:12:06.080><c> ad</c>

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And it says, and I quote, "This is an ad
 

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And it says, and I quote, "This is an ad
for<00:12:06.640><c> a</c><00:12:06.680><c> sex</c><00:12:07.120><c> work</c><00:12:07.360><c> page,</c><00:12:07.680><c> not</c><00:12:08.120><c> autism."</c><00:12:08.600><c> If</c><00:12:08.720><c> you</c>

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for a sex work page, not autism." If you
 

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for a sex work page, not autism." If you
look<00:12:08.960><c> on</c><00:12:09.040><c> her</c><00:12:09.200><c> TikTok,</c><00:12:09.720><c> it</c><00:12:09.800><c> promotes</c><00:12:10.080><c> her</c>

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look on her TikTok, it promotes her
 

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look on her TikTok, it promotes her
Instagram,<00:12:10.680><c> which</c><00:12:10.839><c> promotes</c><00:12:11.160><c> her</c><00:12:11.320><c> OnlyFans.</c>

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Instagram, which promotes her OnlyFans.
 

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Instagram, which promotes her OnlyFans.
So,<00:12:13.200><c> her</c><00:12:13.320><c> bio</c><00:12:13.960><c> says</c><00:12:14.720><c> autism</c><00:12:15.040><c> awareness</c><00:12:15.360><c> and</c>

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So, her bio says autism awareness and
 

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So, her bio says autism awareness and
advocacy.<00:12:16.680><c> The</c><00:12:16.880><c> community</c><00:12:17.280><c> note</c><00:12:17.520><c> says</c><00:12:17.720><c> it's</c><00:12:17.839><c> a</c>

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advocacy. The community note says it's a
 

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advocacy. The community note says it's a
sales<00:12:18.240><c> funnel,</c><00:12:18.720><c> right?</c><00:12:19.160><c> So,</c><00:12:19.560><c> TikTok</c><00:12:20.480><c> promotes</c>

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sales funnel, right? So, TikTok promotes
 

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sales funnel, right? So, TikTok promotes
her<00:12:21.000><c> Instagram,</c><00:12:21.880><c> and</c><00:12:22.000><c> her</c><00:12:22.120><c> Instagram</c><00:12:22.560><c> page</c>

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her Instagram, and her Instagram page
 

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her Instagram, and her Instagram page
promotes<00:12:23.280><c> her</c><00:12:23.400><c> OnlyFans.</c><00:12:24.320><c> The</c><00:12:24.480><c> autism</c>

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promotes her OnlyFans. The autism
 

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promotes her OnlyFans. The autism
awareness<00:12:25.680><c> is</c><00:12:25.880><c> just</c><00:12:26.120><c> marketing,</c><00:12:26.960><c> okay?</c><00:12:27.200><c> It's</c>

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awareness is just marketing, okay? It's
 

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awareness is just marketing, okay? It's
just<00:12:27.560><c> packaging.</c><00:12:28.360><c> It's</c><00:12:28.520><c> autistic-colored</c>

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just packaging. It's autistic-colored
 

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just packaging. It's autistic-colored
wrapping<00:12:30.680><c> paper.</c>

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wrapping paper.
 

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wrapping paper.
No<00:12:32.080><c> puzzle</c><00:12:32.320><c> pieces.</c>

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No puzzle pieces.
 

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No puzzle pieces.
Just<00:12:34.400><c> um</c>

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Just um
 

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Just um
I<00:12:36.280><c> don't</c><00:12:36.440><c> know,</c><00:12:36.760><c> nudes.</c><00:12:37.400><c> So,</c><00:12:37.520><c> my</c><00:12:37.640><c> video</c><00:12:38.040><c> that</c><00:12:38.200><c> I</c>

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I don't know, nudes. So, my video that I
 

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I don't know, nudes. So, my video that I
made<00:12:38.520><c> last</c><00:12:38.720><c> summer</c><00:12:39.000><c> called</c><00:12:39.320><c> the</c><00:12:39.400><c> sex</c><00:12:39.640><c> talk</c>

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made last summer called the sex talk
 

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made last summer called the sex talk
that<00:12:39.960><c> autistic</c><00:12:40.360><c> adults</c><00:12:40.640><c> never</c><00:12:40.839><c> got,</c><00:12:41.560><c> it</c><00:12:41.720><c> was</c><00:12:41.839><c> a</c>

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that autistic adults never got, it was a
 

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that autistic adults never got, it was a
blesser<00:12:42.240><c> collaboration,</c><00:12:42.880><c> too.</c><00:12:43.560><c> And</c>

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blesser collaboration, too. And
 

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blesser collaboration, too. And
actually,<00:12:44.200><c> YouTube</c><00:12:44.560><c> demonetized</c><00:12:45.280><c> that</c>

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actually, YouTube demonetized that
 

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actually, YouTube demonetized that
because<00:12:45.760><c> apparently</c><00:12:46.240><c> being</c><00:12:46.520><c> openly</c>

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because apparently being openly
 

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because apparently being openly
sex-positive<00:12:47.760><c> about</c><00:12:48.000><c> intimacy</c><00:12:48.400><c> products</c><00:12:49.320><c> is</c>

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sex-positive about intimacy products is
 

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sex-positive about intimacy products is
unsafe<00:12:50.080><c> for</c><00:12:50.200><c> advertisers</c><00:12:50.920><c> and</c><00:12:51.080><c> means</c><00:12:51.320><c> the</c>

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unsafe for advertisers and means the
 

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unsafe for advertisers and means the
video<00:12:51.640><c> doesn't</c><00:12:51.880><c> get</c><00:12:52.080><c> seen</c><00:12:52.360><c> by</c><00:12:52.440><c> many</c><00:12:52.680><c> people.</c>

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video doesn't get seen by many people.
 

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video doesn't get seen by many people.
But<00:12:53.680><c> meanwhile,</c><00:12:54.160><c> a</c><00:12:54.240><c> pickup</c><00:12:54.680><c> artist</c><00:12:55.640><c> even</c><00:12:55.920><c> on</c>

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But meanwhile, a pickup artist even on
 

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But meanwhile, a pickup artist even on
YouTube<00:12:56.560><c> can</c><00:12:56.680><c> tell</c><00:12:57.280><c> millions</c><00:12:57.720><c> of</c><00:12:57.800><c> people</c><00:12:58.320><c> to</c>

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YouTube can tell millions of people to
 

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YouTube can tell millions of people to
get<00:12:58.800><c> an</c><00:12:58.880><c> autistic</c><00:12:59.240><c> girlfriend,</c><00:12:59.720><c> and</c><00:12:59.839><c> that</c>

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get an autistic girlfriend, and that
 

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get an autistic girlfriend, and that
that's<00:13:00.720><c> okay.</c>

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that's okay.
 

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that's okay.
&gt;&gt; [laughter]

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
 

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
&gt;&gt; Make<00:13:02.120><c> it</c><00:13:02.200><c> make</c><00:13:02.400><c> sense.</c><00:13:02.960><c> Make</c><00:13:03.200><c> it</c><00:13:03.280><c> make</c><00:13:03.520><c> sense.</c>

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&gt;&gt; Make it make sense. Make it make sense.
 

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&gt;&gt; Make it make sense. Make it make sense.
Uh<00:13:04.440><c> I</c><00:13:04.480><c> have</c><00:13:04.680><c> linked</c><00:13:04.960><c> the</c><00:13:05.080><c> sex</c><00:13:05.320><c> talk</c><00:13:05.480><c> video</c>

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Uh I have linked the sex talk video
 

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Uh I have linked the sex talk video
below<00:13:06.120><c> because</c><00:13:06.400><c> it's</c><00:13:06.560><c> still</c><00:13:06.960><c> one</c><00:13:07.120><c> of</c><00:13:07.200><c> the</c><00:13:07.280><c> most</c>

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below because it's still one of the most
 

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below because it's still one of the most
useful<00:13:07.760><c> things</c><00:13:08.080><c> I've</c><00:13:08.200><c> ever</c><00:13:08.360><c> made,</c><00:13:08.800><c> and</c><00:13:08.920><c> I</c>

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useful things I've ever made, and I
 

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useful things I've ever made, and I
think<00:13:09.160><c> it</c><00:13:09.240><c> deserves</c><00:13:09.520><c> a</c><00:13:09.600><c> few</c><00:13:09.760><c> more</c><00:13:09.960><c> eyeballs.</c>

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think it deserves a few more eyeballs.
 

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think it deserves a few more eyeballs.
But<00:13:11.839><c> it</c><00:13:12.000><c> gets</c><00:13:12.280><c> worse.</c><00:13:13.040><c> A</c><00:13:13.120><c> woman</c><00:13:13.400><c> performs</c>

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But it gets worse. A woman performs
 

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But it gets worse. A woman performs
autism<00:13:14.360><c> as</c><00:13:14.520><c> a</c><00:13:14.600><c> childlike</c><00:13:15.120><c> aesthetic</c><00:13:16.240><c> to</c>

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autism as a childlike aesthetic to
 

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autism as a childlike aesthetic to
funnel<00:13:17.080><c> traffic</c><00:13:17.520><c> to</c><00:13:17.600><c> her</c><00:13:17.839><c> OnlyFans.</c>

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funnel traffic to her OnlyFans.
 

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funnel traffic to her OnlyFans.
A<00:13:19.600><c> pickup</c><00:13:20.040><c> artist</c><00:13:20.720><c> amplifies</c><00:13:21.360><c> it</c><00:13:21.520><c> to</c><00:13:21.600><c> millions</c>

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A pickup artist amplifies it to millions
 

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A pickup artist amplifies it to millions
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of people as dating advice. Men on Hinge
 

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of people as dating advice. Men on Hinge
have<00:13:24.720><c> been</c><00:13:24.880><c> writing</c><00:13:25.560><c> slightly</c><00:13:25.960><c> autistic</c><00:13:26.440><c> in</c>

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have been writing slightly autistic in
 

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have been writing slightly autistic in
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their profiles for months, and the
 

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their profiles for months, and the
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audience replying to this content is
 

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audience replying to this content is
writing<00:13:30.040><c> things</c><00:13:30.280><c> like</c><00:13:30.600><c> [&nbsp;__&nbsp;]</c><00:13:31.120><c> girls</c><00:13:31.400><c> are</c>

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writing things like [&nbsp;__&nbsp;] girls are
 

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writing things like [&nbsp;__&nbsp;] girls are
the<00:13:31.560><c> best.</c><00:13:32.400><c> Apparently,</c><00:13:32.800><c> this</c><00:13:32.920><c> isn't</c><00:13:33.160><c> even</c>

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the best. Apparently, this isn't even
 

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the best. Apparently, this isn't even
new.<00:13:33.800><c> One</c><00:13:33.960><c> of</c><00:13:34.040><c> the</c><00:13:34.120><c> replies</c><00:13:34.960><c> said,</c><00:13:35.320><c> "Is</c><00:13:35.480><c> faking</c>

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new. One of the replies said, "Is faking
 

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new. One of the replies said, "Is faking
autism<00:13:36.240><c> going</c><00:13:36.440><c> to</c><00:13:36.520><c> be</c><00:13:36.600><c> the</c><00:13:36.680><c> new</c><00:13:36.800><c> trend</c><00:13:37.240><c> for</c><00:13:37.440><c> OF</c>

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autism going to be the new trend for OF
 

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autism going to be the new trend for OF
girls<00:13:38.440><c> since</c><00:13:38.720><c> the</c><00:13:38.839><c> Down</c><00:13:39.120><c> syndrome</c><00:13:39.560><c> one</c><00:13:39.720><c> didn't</c>

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girls since the Down syndrome one didn't
 

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girls since the Down syndrome one didn't
go<00:13:40.120><c> over</c><00:13:40.360><c> well?"</c><00:13:41.160><c> And</c><00:13:41.400><c> believe</c><00:13:41.640><c> it</c><00:13:41.680><c> or</c><00:13:41.760><c> not,</c>

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go over well?" And believe it or not,
 

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go over well?" And believe it or not,
that<00:13:42.320><c> was</c><00:13:43.040><c> an</c><00:13:43.240><c> OnlyFans</c><00:13:43.720><c> trend</c><00:13:44.040><c> for</c><00:13:44.160><c> a</c><00:13:44.240><c> while.</c>

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that was an OnlyFans trend for a while.
 

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that was an OnlyFans trend for a while.
It<00:13:44.839><c> is</c><00:13:44.960><c> a</c><00:13:45.080><c> it's</c><00:13:45.240><c> a</c><00:13:45.440><c> absolutely</c><00:13:45.839><c> a</c><00:13:45.880><c> pattern.</c>

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It is a it's a absolutely a pattern.
 

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It is a it's a absolutely a pattern.
It's<00:13:46.880><c> disability</c><00:13:47.520><c> performed</c><00:13:48.480><c> for</c><00:13:48.600><c> sexual</c>

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It's disability performed for sexual
 

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It's disability performed for sexual
content.<00:13:49.920><c> And</c><00:13:50.040><c> this</c><00:13:50.160><c> is</c><00:13:50.280><c> where</c><00:13:50.440><c> it</c><00:13:50.560><c> stops</c>

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content. And this is where it stops
 

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content. And this is where it stops
being<00:13:51.120><c> cringe</c><00:13:51.600><c> and</c><00:13:52.000><c> and</c><00:13:52.160><c> starts</c><00:13:52.480><c> being</c>

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being cringe and and starts being
 

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being cringe and and starts being
dangerous.<00:13:53.160><c> This</c><00:13:53.280><c> is</c><00:13:53.400><c> where</c><00:13:53.480><c> the</c><00:13:53.560><c> channel</c>

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dangerous. This is where the channel
 

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dangerous. This is where the channel
slides<00:13:54.200><c> into</c><00:13:54.400><c> advocacy</c><00:13:55.000><c> here</c><00:13:55.160><c> because</c><00:13:55.880><c> I</c><00:13:55.960><c> need</c>

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slides into advocacy here because I need
 

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slides into advocacy here because I need
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to show you some numbers. I'm going to
 

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to show you some numbers. I'm going to
cite<00:13:58.160><c> my</c><00:13:58.200><c> sources,</c><00:13:58.760><c> and</c><00:13:58.920><c> I</c><00:13:59.080><c> I</c><00:13:59.280><c> always</c><00:13:59.839><c> do,</c><00:14:00.320><c> but</c>

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cite my sources, and I I always do, but
 

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cite my sources, and I I always do, but
I'm<00:14:00.720><c> particularly</c><00:14:01.200><c> going</c><00:14:01.320><c> to</c><00:14:01.400><c> do</c><00:14:01.480><c> it</c><00:14:01.600><c> here</c>

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I'm particularly going to do it here
 

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I'm particularly going to do it here
because<00:14:02.080><c> you</c><00:14:02.160><c> deserve</c><00:14:02.560><c> to</c><00:14:02.680><c> check</c><00:14:02.920><c> these</c><00:14:03.160><c> out</c>

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because you deserve to check these out
 

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because you deserve to check these out
yourself<00:14:03.760><c> because</c><00:14:04.120><c> the</c><00:14:04.200><c> numbers</c><00:14:04.600><c> are</c><00:14:04.960><c> really</c>

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yourself because the numbers are really
 

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yourself because the numbers are really
bad.<00:14:05.839><c> A</c><00:14:05.920><c> French</c><00:14:06.240><c> study</c><00:14:06.760><c> by</c><00:14:06.960><c> Compagnone</c><00:14:07.680><c> and</c>

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bad. A French study by Compagnone and
 

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bad. A French study by Compagnone and
colleagues<00:14:08.440><c> in</c><00:14:08.640><c> 2022,</c>

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colleagues in 2022,
 

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colleagues in 2022,
I<00:14:10.560><c> think</c><00:14:10.760><c> it</c><00:14:10.839><c> was,</c><00:14:11.280><c> surveyed</c><00:14:12.079><c> 225</c><00:14:13.120><c> autistic</c>

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I think it was, surveyed 225 autistic
 

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I think it was, surveyed 225 autistic
women.<00:14:13.920><c> 88.4%</c><00:14:15.240><c> reported</c><00:14:15.839><c> sexual</c><00:14:16.400><c> violence.</c>

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women. 88.4% reported sexual violence.
 

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women. 88.4% reported sexual violence.
68.9%

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68.9%
 

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68.9%
reported<00:14:19.440><c> rape.</c><00:14:19.839><c> And</c><00:14:19.959><c> for</c><00:14:20.120><c> context,</c><00:14:20.880><c> the</c>

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reported rape. And for context, the
 

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reported rape. And for context, the
general<00:14:21.600><c> population</c><00:14:22.920><c> figure</c><00:14:23.520><c> for</c><00:14:23.720><c> women</c><00:14:24.320><c> is</c>

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general population figure for women is
 

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general population figure for women is
around<00:14:25.400><c> 30%,</c><00:14:26.280><c> which</c><00:14:26.440><c> is</c><00:14:26.680><c> 30%</c><00:14:27.280><c> too</c><00:14:27.400><c> high,</c><00:14:27.640><c> but</c>

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around 30%, which is 30% too high, but
 

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around 30%, which is 30% too high, but
big<00:14:28.959><c> difference.</c><00:14:29.640><c> We</c><00:14:29.839><c> are</c><00:14:29.920><c> looking</c><00:14:30.160><c> at</c>

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big difference. We are looking at
 

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big difference. We are looking at
roughly<00:14:31.320><c> three</c><00:14:31.640><c> times</c><00:14:32.400><c> the</c><00:14:32.560><c> rate</c><00:14:33.320><c> of</c><00:14:33.800><c> sexual</c>

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roughly three times the rate of sexual
 

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roughly three times the rate of sexual
violence.<00:14:34.800><c> And</c><00:14:34.920><c> a</c><00:14:34.959><c> separate</c><00:14:35.520><c> study</c><00:14:35.959><c> found</c>

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violence. And a separate study found
 

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violence. And a separate study found
that<00:14:36.200><c> 61%</c><00:14:36.959><c> of</c><00:14:37.040><c> autistic</c><00:14:37.360><c> women</c><00:14:37.959><c> experienced</c>

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that 61% of autistic women experienced
 

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that 61% of autistic women experienced
sexual<00:14:38.800><c> violence</c><00:14:39.200><c> compared</c><00:14:39.520><c> to</c><00:14:39.640><c> 34.5%</c>

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sexual violence compared to 34.5%
 

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sexual violence compared to 34.5%
of<00:14:41.400><c> non-autistic</c><00:14:42.079><c> women.</c><00:14:42.839><c> And</c><00:14:43.000><c> Douglas</c><00:14:43.400><c> in</c>

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of non-autistic women. And Douglas in
 

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of non-autistic women. And Douglas in
2024<00:14:44.360><c> reviewed</c><00:14:44.839><c> the</c><00:14:44.920><c> broader</c><00:14:45.200><c> evidence</c><00:14:45.520><c> and</c>

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2024 reviewed the broader evidence and
 

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2024 reviewed the broader evidence and
concluded<00:14:46.160><c> that</c><00:14:46.280><c> up</c><00:14:46.400><c> to</c><00:14:46.480><c> 90%</c><00:14:47.440><c> of</c><00:14:47.520><c> autistic</c>

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concluded that up to 90% of autistic
 

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concluded that up to 90% of autistic
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people may experience some form of
 

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people may experience some form of
interpersonal<00:14:50.520><c> abuse</c><00:14:50.839><c> across</c><00:14:51.120><c> their</c><00:14:51.240><c> lives.</c>

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interpersonal abuse across their lives.
 

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interpersonal abuse across their lives.
Now,<00:14:52.760><c> these</c><00:14:53.079><c> aren't</c><00:14:53.400><c> one-off</c><00:14:53.680><c> studies</c><00:14:54.040><c> from</c>

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Now, these aren't one-off studies from
 

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Now, these aren't one-off studies from
the<00:14:54.240><c> same</c><00:14:54.480><c> lab.</c><00:14:54.760><c> They</c><00:14:54.920><c> are</c><00:14:55.000><c> different</c>

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the same lab. They are different
 

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the same lab. They are different
research<00:14:55.839><c> teams</c><00:14:56.720><c> in</c><00:14:56.839><c> different</c><00:14:57.120><c> countries</c>

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research teams in different countries
 

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research teams in different countries
using<00:14:58.360><c> different</c><00:14:58.640><c> methods,</c>

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using different methods,
 

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using different methods,
and<00:15:00.360><c> they</c><00:15:00.520><c> are</c><00:15:00.720><c> all</c><00:15:00.839><c> converging</c><00:15:01.440><c> on</c><00:15:01.560><c> the</c><00:15:01.640><c> same</c>

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and they are all converging on the same
 

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and they are all converging on the same
picture.

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picture.
 

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picture.
Nearly<00:15:04.560><c> nine</c><00:15:05.520><c> in</c><00:15:05.720><c> 10</c><00:15:05.959><c> of</c><00:15:06.120><c> us</c><00:15:06.680><c> experience</c><00:15:07.720><c> some</c>

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Nearly nine in 10 of us experience some
 

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Nearly nine in 10 of us experience some
form<00:15:08.320><c> of</c><00:15:08.440><c> interpersonal</c><00:15:09.360><c> violence.</c><00:15:09.920><c> And</c><00:15:10.079><c> I</c>

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form of interpersonal violence. And I
 

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form of interpersonal violence. And I
want<00:15:10.320><c> you</c><00:15:10.400><c> to</c><00:15:10.520><c> hold</c><00:15:10.760><c> that</c><00:15:10.880><c> number</c><00:15:11.120><c> in</c><00:15:11.240><c> your</c>

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want you to hold that number in your
 

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want you to hold that number in your
head

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head
 

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head
because

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because
 

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because
this<00:15:14.320><c> is</c><00:15:14.520><c> why</c><00:15:14.720><c> I'm</c><00:15:14.839><c> making</c><00:15:15.120><c> this</c><00:15:15.320><c> video.</c><00:15:16.079><c> When</c>

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this is why I'm making this video. When
 

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this is why I'm making this video. When
you<00:15:16.320><c> frame</c><00:15:16.839><c> a</c><00:15:16.920><c> group</c><00:15:17.120><c> of</c><00:15:17.200><c> people</c><00:15:17.640><c> as</c>

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you frame a group of people as
 

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you frame a group of people as
childlike,<00:15:18.560><c> naive,</c><00:15:19.600><c> and</c><00:15:19.720><c> dependent,</c><00:15:20.240><c> you</c><00:15:20.320><c> do</c>

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childlike, naive, and dependent, you do
 

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childlike, naive, and dependent, you do
two<00:15:20.640><c> things.</c><00:15:21.440><c> You</c><00:15:21.640><c> make</c><00:15:21.839><c> their</c><00:15:21.959><c> boundaries</c>

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two things. You make their boundaries
 

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two things. You make their boundaries
appear<00:15:23.280><c> to</c><00:15:23.360><c> be</c><00:15:23.480><c> negotiable,</c><00:15:24.640><c> and</c><00:15:24.839><c> you</c><00:15:24.920><c> make</c>

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appear to be negotiable, and you make
 

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appear to be negotiable, and you make
them<00:15:25.240><c> easier</c><00:15:25.520><c> to</c><00:15:25.640><c> exploit.</c><00:15:26.160><c> And</c><00:15:26.240><c> that</c>

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them easier to exploit. And that
 

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them easier to exploit. And that
mechanism<00:15:27.240><c> has</c><00:15:27.400><c> consequences.</c><00:15:28.320><c> And</c><00:15:28.400><c> there</c><00:15:28.520><c> is</c>

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mechanism has consequences. And there is
 

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mechanism has consequences. And there is
a<00:15:28.680><c> term</c><00:15:29.280><c> for</c><00:15:29.720><c> this</c><00:15:30.079><c> in</c><00:15:30.280><c> disability</c><00:15:30.760><c> studies.</c>

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a term for this in disability studies.
 

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a term for this in disability studies.
Michael<00:15:31.680><c> Gill</c><00:15:31.920><c> calls</c><00:15:32.240><c> it</c><00:15:32.880><c> sexual</c><00:15:33.400><c> ableism.</c>

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Michael Gill calls it sexual ableism.
 

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Michael Gill calls it sexual ableism.
It's<00:15:34.120><c> the</c><00:15:34.200><c> system</c><00:15:34.839><c> that</c><00:15:35.040><c> decides</c><00:15:35.680><c> who</c><00:15:35.880><c> counts</c>

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It's the system that decides who counts
 

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It's the system that decides who counts
as<00:15:36.920><c> a</c><00:15:37.000><c> legitimate</c><00:15:37.760><c> sexual</c><00:15:38.160><c> object</c><00:15:38.640><c> based</c><00:15:38.959><c> on</c>

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as a legitimate sexual object based on
 

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as a legitimate sexual object based on
ability,<00:15:39.640><c> appearance,</c><00:15:40.120><c> and</c><00:15:40.240><c> conformity.</c>

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ability, appearance, and conformity.
 

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ability, appearance, and conformity.
Disabled<00:15:42.480><c> people</c><00:15:43.360><c> get</c><00:15:43.560><c> sorted</c><00:15:43.920><c> into</c><00:15:44.079><c> two</c>

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Disabled people get sorted into two
 

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Disabled people get sorted into two
boxes.<00:15:45.200><c> Either</c><00:15:45.760><c> you're</c><00:15:46.079><c> too</c><00:15:46.440><c> innocent</c><00:15:47.040><c> to</c>

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boxes. Either you're too innocent to
 

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boxes. Either you're too innocent to
want<00:15:47.440><c> sex,</c><00:15:48.160><c> or</c><00:15:48.680><c> you're</c><00:15:49.120><c> an</c><00:15:49.280><c> erotic</c><00:15:50.600><c> exotic</c>

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want sex, or you're an erotic exotic
 

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want sex, or you're an erotic exotic
novelty<00:15:52.200><c> whose</c><00:15:52.440><c> consent</c><00:15:53.600><c> matters</c><00:15:54.200><c> less.</c>

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novelty whose consent matters less.
 

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novelty whose consent matters less.
Autistic<00:15:56.640><c> women</c><00:15:57.160><c> get</c><00:15:57.400><c> it</c><00:15:57.520><c> from</c><00:15:57.680><c> both</c>

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Autistic women get it from both
 

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Autistic women get it from both
directions.<00:15:59.079><c> Desexualized</c><00:16:00.480><c> as</c><00:16:00.839><c> innocent</c>

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directions. Desexualized as innocent
 

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directions. Desexualized as innocent
children<00:16:01.560><c> who</c><00:16:01.680><c> couldn't</c><00:16:01.959><c> possibly</c><00:16:02.440><c> want</c>

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children who couldn't possibly want
 

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children who couldn't possibly want
intimacy,<00:16:03.760><c> or</c><00:16:04.079><c> hypersexualized</c><00:16:05.560><c> as</c><00:16:05.720><c> quirky,</c>

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intimacy, or hypersexualized as quirky,
 

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intimacy, or hypersexualized as quirky,
exotic<00:16:07.320><c> others</c><00:16:07.760><c> whose</c><00:16:08.000><c> boundaries</c><00:16:08.640><c> aren't</c>

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exotic others whose boundaries aren't
 

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exotic others whose boundaries aren't
taken<00:16:09.280><c> seriously.</c><00:16:10.040><c> There</c><00:16:10.200><c> is</c><00:16:10.360><c> no</c><00:16:10.520><c> middle</c>

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taken seriously. There is no middle
 

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taken seriously. There is no middle
ground<00:16:11.079><c> in</c><00:16:11.200><c> the</c><00:16:11.280><c> public</c><00:16:11.520><c> imagination,</c><00:16:12.120><c> and</c>

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ground in the public imagination, and
 

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ground in the public imagination, and
that<00:16:12.520><c> is</c><00:16:13.079><c> the</c><00:16:13.160><c> ground</c><00:16:13.560><c> that</c><00:16:13.720><c> the</c><00:16:14.079><c> slightly</c>

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that is the ground that the slightly
 

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that is the ground that the slightly
autistic<00:16:14.959><c> girlfriend</c><00:16:15.440><c> trend</c><00:16:16.079><c> is</c><00:16:16.280><c> built</c><00:16:16.600><c> on.</c><00:16:16.959><c> I</c>

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autistic girlfriend trend is built on. I
 

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autistic girlfriend trend is built on. I
want<00:16:17.160><c> to</c><00:16:17.240><c> be</c><00:16:17.280><c> careful</c><00:16:17.640><c> here</c><00:16:17.760><c> because</c><00:16:18.000><c> I</c><00:16:18.040><c> refuse</c>

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want to be careful here because I refuse
 

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want to be careful here because I refuse
to<00:16:18.480><c> do</c><00:16:18.600><c> the</c><00:16:18.680><c> thing</c><00:16:18.839><c> I'm</c><00:16:18.959><c> criticizing.</c><00:16:20.000><c> I'm</c><00:16:20.200><c> not</c>

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to do the thing I'm criticizing. I'm not
 

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to do the thing I'm criticizing. I'm not
saying<00:16:20.720><c> that</c><00:16:20.839><c> autistic</c><00:16:21.200><c> people</c><00:16:21.640><c> are</c>

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saying that autistic people are
 

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saying that autistic people are
inherently<00:16:23.079><c> naive</c><00:16:23.920><c> or</c><00:16:24.040><c> incapable.</c><00:16:25.120><c> Okay?</c>

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inherently naive or incapable. Okay?
 

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inherently naive or incapable. Okay?
That's<00:16:26.280><c> infantilization</c><00:16:27.120><c> talking.</c><00:16:27.880><c> What</c><00:16:28.040><c> the</c>

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That's infantilization talking. What the
 

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That's infantilization talking. What the
research<00:16:28.560><c> shows</c><00:16:29.040><c> is</c><00:16:29.160><c> that</c><00:16:29.320><c> certain</c><00:16:29.680><c> traits</c><00:16:30.680><c> in</c>

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research shows is that certain traits in
 

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research shows is that certain traits in
certain<00:16:31.320><c> contexts</c><00:16:32.440><c> can</c><00:16:32.880><c> be</c><00:16:33.120><c> exploited</c><00:16:34.200><c> by</c>

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certain contexts can be exploited by
 

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certain contexts can be exploited by
someone<00:16:34.760><c> who</c><00:16:34.920><c> knows</c><00:16:35.680><c> what</c><00:16:35.880><c> they're</c><00:16:36.040><c> looking</c>

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someone who knows what they're looking
 

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someone who knows what they're looking
for.<00:16:37.079><c> Direct</c><00:16:37.800><c> communication</c><00:16:38.760><c> can</c><00:16:38.880><c> make</c><00:16:39.079><c> it</c>

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for. Direct communication can make it
 

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for. Direct communication can make it
harder<00:16:39.920><c> to</c><00:16:40.040><c> detect</c><00:16:40.800><c> manipulation.</c><00:16:42.120><c> Trusting</c>

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harder to detect manipulation. Trusting
 

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harder to detect manipulation. Trusting
nature<00:16:43.160><c> and</c><00:16:43.320><c> desire</c><00:16:43.760><c> to</c><00:16:43.880><c> belong</c><00:16:44.560><c> can</c><00:16:44.760><c> lead</c><00:16:45.320><c> to</c>

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nature and desire to belong can lead to
 

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nature and desire to belong can lead to
crossing<00:16:46.200><c> your</c><00:16:46.520><c> own</c><00:16:46.800><c> boundaries.</c>

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crossing your own boundaries.
 

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crossing your own boundaries.
Delayed<00:16:48.720><c> processing</c><00:16:49.240><c> of</c><00:16:49.760><c> social</c><00:16:50.160><c> threat</c>

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Delayed processing of social threat
 

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Delayed processing of social threat
cues,<00:16:51.160><c> not</c><00:16:51.440><c> recognizing</c><00:16:52.079><c> coercion</c><00:16:53.200><c> until</c>

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cues, not recognizing coercion until
 

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cues, not recognizing coercion until
after<00:16:53.920><c> the</c><00:16:54.040><c> fact.</c>

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after the fact.
 

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after the fact.
Sensory<00:16:56.680><c> overload</c><00:16:57.200><c> impairing</c><00:16:57.640><c> the</c><00:16:57.720><c> ability</c>

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Sensory overload impairing the ability
 

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Sensory overload impairing the ability
to<00:16:58.079><c> respond</c><00:16:58.839><c> assertively</c><00:17:00.040><c> in</c><00:17:00.240><c> the</c><00:17:00.320><c> moment.</c>

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to respond assertively in the moment.
 

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to respond assertively in the moment.
Now,<00:17:02.280><c> I</c><00:17:02.760><c> really</c><00:17:03.040><c> want</c><00:17:03.200><c> to</c><00:17:03.240><c> be</c><00:17:03.360><c> clear.</c><00:17:04.000><c> These</c>

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Now, I really want to be clear. These
 

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Now, I really want to be clear. These
are<00:17:04.439><c> traits,</c><00:17:05.320><c> not</c><00:17:06.000><c> deficits.</c><00:17:06.920><c> I</c><00:17:06.959><c> know</c><00:17:07.120><c> some</c>

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are traits, not deficits. I know some
 

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are traits, not deficits. I know some
people<00:17:07.600><c> will</c><00:17:07.679><c> look</c><00:17:07.839><c> at</c><00:17:07.920><c> that</c><00:17:08.040><c> and</c><00:17:08.120><c> go,</c><00:17:08.560><c> "Ooh,</c>

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people will look at that and go, "Ooh,
 

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people will look at that and go, "Ooh,
that's<00:17:08.880><c> a</c><00:17:08.920><c> symptoms</c><00:17:09.720><c> list."</c>

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that's a symptoms list."
 

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that's a symptoms list."
But<00:17:12.000><c> they're</c><00:17:12.160><c> just</c><00:17:12.480><c> traits.</c><00:17:13.280><c> They're</c><00:17:13.439><c> neither</c>

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But they're just traits. They're neither
 

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But they're just traits. They're neither
good<00:17:13.920><c> nor</c><00:17:14.079><c> bad.</c><00:17:14.800><c> They're</c><00:17:14.959><c> part</c><00:17:15.320><c> of</c><00:17:15.439><c> how</c><00:17:15.600><c> a</c><00:17:15.679><c> lot</c>

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good nor bad. They're part of how a lot
 

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good nor bad. They're part of how a lot
of<00:17:16.000><c> us</c><00:17:16.120><c> experience</c><00:17:16.560><c> the</c><00:17:16.640><c> world.</c><00:17:16.959><c> And</c>

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of us experience the world. And
 

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of us experience the world. And
honestly,<00:17:17.480><c> in</c><00:17:17.560><c> the</c><00:17:17.679><c> right</c><00:17:17.959><c> context,</c><00:17:18.959><c> some</c><00:17:19.160><c> of</c>

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honestly, in the right context, some of
 

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honestly, in the right context, some of
these<00:17:19.520><c> things</c><00:17:20.400><c> are</c><00:17:20.560><c> genuine</c><00:17:21.480><c> strengths.</c><00:17:22.400><c> I've</c>

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these things are genuine strengths. I've
 

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these things are genuine strengths. I've
built<00:17:22.720><c> a</c><00:17:22.760><c> career</c><00:17:23.160><c> on</c><00:17:23.280><c> directness</c><00:17:23.800><c> and</c>

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built a career on directness and
 

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built a career on directness and
hyperfocus.<00:17:24.600><c> But</c><00:17:24.720><c> in</c><00:17:24.800><c> the</c><00:17:24.880><c> wrong</c><00:17:25.120><c> hands,</c><00:17:25.800><c> in</c>

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hyperfocus. But in the wrong hands, in
 

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hyperfocus. But in the wrong hands, in
the<00:17:26.000><c> hands</c><00:17:26.240><c> of</c><00:17:26.360><c> someone</c><00:17:26.880><c> who</c><00:17:27.480><c> went</c><00:17:27.760><c> on</c><00:17:27.920><c> Hinge</c>

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the hands of someone who went on Hinge
 

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the hands of someone who went on Hinge
specifically<00:17:29.320><c> shopping</c><00:17:30.240><c> for</c><00:17:30.800><c> a</c><00:17:30.920><c> slightly</c>

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specifically shopping for a slightly
 

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specifically shopping for a slightly
autistic<00:17:31.880><c> woman,</c><00:17:32.720><c> those</c><00:17:33.040><c> same</c><00:17:33.280><c> traits</c><00:17:34.000><c> become</c>

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autistic woman, those same traits become
 

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autistic woman, those same traits become
attack<00:17:35.120><c> surfaces.</c><00:17:36.080><c> I've</c><00:17:36.200><c> been</c><00:17:36.400><c> in</c><00:17:36.640><c> situations</c>

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attack surfaces. I've been in situations
 

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attack surfaces. I've been in situations
myself<00:17:37.880><c> where</c><00:17:38.040><c> my</c><00:17:38.160><c> tendency</c><00:17:38.560><c> to</c><00:17:38.640><c> take</c><00:17:38.800><c> people</c>

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myself where my tendency to take people
 

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myself where my tendency to take people
at<00:17:39.160><c> their</c><00:17:39.360><c> word</c><00:17:40.280><c> has</c><00:17:40.520><c> cost</c><00:17:40.920><c> me,</c><00:17:41.679><c> and</c><00:17:41.840><c> I've</c><00:17:41.920><c> had</c>

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at their word has cost me, and I've had
 

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at their word has cost me, and I've had
to<00:17:42.160><c> learn</c><00:17:42.320><c> it</c><00:17:42.400><c> the</c><00:17:42.480><c> hard</c><00:17:42.800><c> way.</c><00:17:43.160><c> I</c><00:17:43.480><c> I</c><00:17:43.720><c> I'm</c><00:17:44.240><c> very</c>

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to learn it the hard way. I I I'm very
 

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to learn it the hard way. I I I'm very
concerned<00:17:45.240><c> that</c>

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concerned that
 

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concerned that
when<00:17:46.560><c> you</c><00:17:46.720><c> see</c><00:17:46.960><c> people</c><00:17:47.280><c> selecting</c><00:17:47.720><c> for</c>

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when you see people selecting for
 

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when you see people selecting for
slightly<00:17:48.120><c> autistic</c><00:17:48.480><c> on</c><00:17:48.560><c> a</c><00:17:48.600><c> dating</c><00:17:48.960><c> profile,</c>

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slightly autistic on a dating profile,
 

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slightly autistic on a dating profile,
just<00:17:50.400><c> remember</c><00:17:50.800><c> that</c><00:17:51.080><c> selecting</c><00:17:51.960><c> for</c><00:17:52.280><c> and</c>

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just remember that selecting for and
 

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just remember that selecting for and
against<00:17:52.800><c> list,</c><00:17:53.600><c> it</c><00:17:53.880><c> it's</c><00:17:54.160><c> not</c><00:17:54.360><c> a</c><00:17:54.800><c> you</c><00:17:54.920><c> know,</c>

00:17:55.190 --> 00:17:55.200 align:start position:0%
against list, it it's not a you know,
 

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against list, it it's not a you know,
oh,<00:17:55.360><c> I</c><00:17:55.440><c> preference.</c><00:17:56.720><c> Because</c><00:17:56.920><c> if</c><00:17:57.040><c> it</c><00:17:57.120><c> was,</c>

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oh, I preference. Because if it was,
 

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oh, I preference. Because if it was,
they<00:17:57.480><c> would</c><00:17:57.600><c> say,</c><00:17:57.840><c> "I</c><00:17:57.920><c> value</c><00:17:58.320><c> people</c><00:17:58.560><c> who</c><00:17:58.679><c> are</c>

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they would say, "I value people who are
 

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they would say, "I value people who are
direct.<00:17:59.240><c> I</c><00:17:59.400><c> value</c><00:17:59.920><c> people</c><00:18:00.200><c> who</c><00:18:00.400><c> are</c><00:18:00.440><c> loyal,</c>

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direct. I value people who are loyal,
 

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direct. I value people who are loyal,
etc.,<00:18:01.120><c> etc."</c>

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etc., etc."
 

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etc., etc."
But<00:18:02.800><c> it</c><00:18:02.880><c> might</c><00:18:03.040><c> just</c><00:18:03.200><c> be</c><00:18:03.320><c> a</c><00:18:03.440><c> predator's</c>

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But it might just be a predator's
 

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But it might just be a predator's
shopping<00:18:05.040><c> list,</c><00:18:05.720><c> which</c><00:18:05.920><c> just</c><00:18:06.120><c> has</c><00:18:06.320><c> a</c><00:18:06.440><c> a</c><00:18:06.520><c> Hinge</c>

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shopping list, which just has a a Hinge
 

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shopping list, which just has a a Hinge
prompt<00:18:07.440><c> wrapped</c><00:18:07.720><c> around</c><00:18:08.120><c> it.</c><00:18:08.679><c> What</c><00:18:08.840><c> does</c><00:18:08.920><c> a</c>

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prompt wrapped around it. What does a
 

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prompt wrapped around it. What does a
healthy<00:18:09.240><c> relationship</c><00:18:09.800><c> actually</c><00:18:10.080><c> look</c><00:18:10.320><c> like?</c>

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healthy relationship actually look like?
 

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healthy relationship actually look like?
And<00:18:10.600><c> I've</c><00:18:10.679><c> talked</c><00:18:10.920><c> about</c><00:18:11.080><c> this</c><00:18:11.240><c> before</c><00:18:11.679><c> on</c>

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And I've talked about this before on
 

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And I've talked about this before on
this<00:18:11.920><c> channel,</c><00:18:12.320><c> and</c><00:18:12.440><c> I</c><00:18:12.480><c> think</c><00:18:12.679><c> transactional</c>

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this channel, and I think transactional
 

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this channel, and I think transactional
analysis

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analysis
 

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analysis
gives<00:18:14.480><c> us</c><00:18:14.600><c> the</c><00:18:14.679><c> clearest</c><00:18:15.080><c> answer.</c><00:18:15.760><c> I've</c>

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gives us the clearest answer. I've
 

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gives us the clearest answer. I've
talked<00:18:16.000><c> about</c><00:18:16.160><c> transactional</c><00:18:16.640><c> analysis</c>

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talked about transactional analysis
 

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talked about transactional analysis
before<00:18:17.320><c> on</c><00:18:17.400><c> this</c><00:18:17.520><c> channel.</c><00:18:17.920><c> If</c><00:18:18.000><c> you've</c>

00:18:18.110 --> 00:18:18.120 align:start position:0%
before on this channel. If you've
 

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before on this channel. If you've
watched<00:18:18.320><c> my</c><00:18:18.400><c> video</c><00:18:19.120><c> on</c><00:18:19.320><c> dealing</c><00:18:19.600><c> with</c>

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watched my video on dealing with
 

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watched my video on dealing with
manipulation<00:18:20.480><c> and</c><00:18:20.720><c> games,</c><00:18:21.280><c> you'll</c><00:18:21.400><c> know</c>

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manipulation and games, you'll know
 

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manipulation and games, you'll know
about<00:18:22.120><c> Eric</c><00:18:22.440><c> Berne's</c><00:18:22.880><c> ego</c><00:18:23.160><c> states.</c><00:18:23.600><c> And</c><00:18:23.720><c> I'll</c>

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about Eric Berne's ego states. And I'll
 

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about Eric Berne's ego states. And I'll
link<00:18:23.960><c> that</c><00:18:24.080><c> video</c><00:18:24.320><c> here</c><00:18:24.920><c> and</c><00:18:25.160><c> in</c><00:18:25.240><c> the</c>

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link that video here and in the
 

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link that video here and in the
description<00:18:26.080><c> because</c><00:18:26.360><c> it</c><00:18:26.440><c> goes</c><00:18:26.600><c> deep</c><00:18:26.880><c> into</c>

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description because it goes deep into
 

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description because it goes deep into
this.<00:18:27.760><c> Quick</c><00:18:27.960><c> version</c><00:18:28.360><c> for</c><00:18:28.480><c> anyone</c><00:18:28.800><c> new,</c>

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this. Quick version for anyone new,
 

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this. Quick version for anyone new,
Berne's<00:18:29.760><c> model</c><00:18:30.040><c> says</c><00:18:30.400><c> that</c><00:18:30.520><c> we</c><00:18:30.720><c> all</c>

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Berne's model says that we all
 

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Berne's model says that we all
communicate<00:18:31.520><c> from</c><00:18:32.000><c> one</c><00:18:32.280><c> of</c><00:18:32.440><c> three</c><00:18:32.800><c> ego</c>

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communicate from one of three ego
 

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communicate from one of three ego
states.<00:18:34.120><c> Parent</c><00:18:34.800><c> is</c><00:18:34.960><c> your</c><00:18:35.200><c> internalized</c>

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states. Parent is your internalized
 

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states. Parent is your internalized
authority<00:18:36.679><c> figure.</c><00:18:37.040><c> It's</c><00:18:37.240><c> the</c><00:18:37.720><c> you</c><00:18:37.960><c> should</c>

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authority figure. It's the you should
 

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authority figure. It's the you should
voice.<00:18:39.040><c> It</c><00:18:39.159><c> can</c><00:18:39.280><c> be</c><00:18:39.400><c> nurturing,</c><00:18:40.280><c> or</c><00:18:40.400><c> it</c><00:18:40.480><c> can</c><00:18:40.600><c> be</c>

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voice. It can be nurturing, or it can be
 

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voice. It can be nurturing, or it can be
critical.

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critical.
 

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critical.
Adult<00:18:42.840><c> is</c><00:18:43.000><c> your</c><00:18:43.280><c> rational,</c><00:18:44.080><c> present</c><00:18:44.480><c> moment</c>

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Adult is your rational, present moment
 

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Adult is your rational, present moment
self.<00:18:45.520><c> It</c><00:18:45.679><c> processes</c><00:18:46.200><c> what's</c><00:18:46.440><c> actually</c>

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self. It processes what's actually
 

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self. It processes what's actually
happening<00:18:47.320><c> without</c><00:18:47.720><c> any</c><00:18:47.880><c> emotional</c><00:18:48.320><c> baggage,</c>

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happening without any emotional baggage,
 

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happening without any emotional baggage,
and<00:18:49.360><c> child</c><00:18:49.800><c> is</c><00:18:49.919><c> your</c><00:18:50.040><c> emotional,</c><00:18:51.000><c> playful,</c><00:18:51.880><c> or</c>

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and child is your emotional, playful, or
 

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and child is your emotional, playful, or
compliant<00:18:52.600><c> self</c><00:18:53.200><c> formed</c><00:18:53.679><c> from</c><00:18:53.919><c> early</c>

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compliant self formed from early
 

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compliant self formed from early
experience.<00:18:55.520><c> So,</c><00:18:55.800><c> in</c><00:18:55.919><c> that</c><00:18:56.080><c> video,</c><00:18:56.320><c> I</c><00:18:56.400><c> talked</c>

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experience. So, in that video, I talked
 

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experience. So, in that video, I talked
about<00:18:56.800><c> how</c><00:18:57.080><c> social</c><00:18:57.600><c> games</c><00:18:58.000><c> work,</c><00:18:58.560><c> repetitive</c>

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about how social games work, repetitive
 

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about how social games work, repetitive
social<00:18:59.760><c> patterns</c><00:19:00.240><c> with</c><00:19:00.679><c> all</c><00:19:00.840><c> those</c><00:19:01.040><c> hidden</c>

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social patterns with all those hidden
 

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social patterns with all those hidden
rules,<00:19:02.080><c> and</c><00:19:02.200><c> how</c><00:19:02.280><c> autistic</c><00:19:02.640><c> people</c><00:19:02.880><c> often</c><00:19:03.080><c> get</c>

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rules, and how autistic people often get
 

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rules, and how autistic people often get
caught<00:19:03.520><c> in</c><00:19:03.600><c> them</c><00:19:03.760><c> because</c><00:19:04.040><c> we're</c><00:19:04.640><c> playing</c><00:19:05.240><c> a</c>

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caught in them because we're playing a
 

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caught in them because we're playing a
different<00:19:05.679><c> game</c><00:19:06.360><c> to</c><00:19:06.520><c> what</c><00:19:06.720><c> everyone</c><00:19:07.040><c> else</c><00:19:07.679><c> is</c>

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different game to what everyone else is
 

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different game to what everyone else is
necessarily<00:19:08.280><c> playing.</c>

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necessarily playing.
 

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necessarily playing.
Now,<00:19:09.800><c> the</c><00:19:09.919><c> same</c><00:19:10.159><c> thing</c><00:19:10.320><c> happens</c><00:19:10.600><c> to</c>

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Now, the same thing happens to
 

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Now, the same thing happens to
relationships.<00:19:11.679><c> Healthy</c><00:19:12.040><c> ones</c><00:19:12.440><c> are</c><00:19:12.520><c> mostly</c>

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relationships. Healthy ones are mostly
 

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relationships. Healthy ones are mostly
adult<00:19:14.240><c> to</c><00:19:14.440><c> adult.</c><00:19:15.040><c> They</c><00:19:15.120><c> are</c><00:19:15.240><c> two</c><00:19:15.440><c> people</c>

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adult to adult. They are two people
 

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adult to adult. They are two people
meeting<00:19:16.400><c> as</c><00:19:16.600><c> equals.</c><00:19:17.800><c> Unhealthy</c><00:19:18.400><c> ones</c><00:19:18.919><c> drift</c>

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meeting as equals. Unhealthy ones drift
 

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meeting as equals. Unhealthy ones drift
into<00:19:19.600><c> patterns</c><00:19:20.120><c> of</c><00:19:20.600><c> parent</c><00:19:21.159><c> to</c><00:19:21.240><c> child,</c><00:19:21.960><c> and</c>

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into patterns of parent to child, and
 

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into patterns of parent to child, and
that's<00:19:22.200><c> exactly</c><00:19:22.800><c> what</c><00:19:22.960><c> we're</c><00:19:23.080><c> looking</c><00:19:23.400><c> at</c>

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that's exactly what we're looking at
 

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that's exactly what we're looking at
here.<00:19:24.440><c> Adult</c><00:19:24.800><c> to</c><00:19:24.880><c> adult</c><00:19:25.200><c> means</c><00:19:25.600><c> two</c><00:19:25.800><c> people</c>

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here. Adult to adult means two people
 

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here. Adult to adult means two people
meeting<00:19:26.640><c> as</c><00:19:26.919><c> equals,</c><00:19:27.720><c> negotiating</c><00:19:28.679><c> their</c>

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meeting as equals, negotiating their
 

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meeting as equals, negotiating their
needs,<00:19:29.520><c> respecting</c><00:19:30.440><c> boundaries,</c><00:19:31.280><c> neither</c>

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needs, respecting boundaries, neither
 

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needs, respecting boundaries, neither
one<00:19:32.240><c> managing</c><00:19:32.840><c> the</c><00:19:33.000><c> other.</c><00:19:33.800><c> The</c><00:19:33.919><c> autistic</c>

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one managing the other. The autistic
 

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one managing the other. The autistic
girlfriend<00:19:34.760><c> trope</c><00:19:35.440><c> scripts</c><00:19:35.880><c> the</c><00:19:36.000><c> opposite.</c>

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girlfriend trope scripts the opposite.
 

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girlfriend trope scripts the opposite.
It's<00:19:37.080><c> parent</c><00:19:38.080><c> to</c><00:19:38.240><c> child.</c><00:19:39.240><c> One</c><00:19:39.440><c> person</c>

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It's parent to child. One person
 

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It's parent to child. One person
decides,<00:19:40.640><c> guides,</c><00:19:41.520><c> supervises,</c><00:19:42.480><c> and</c>

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decides, guides, supervises, and
 

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decides, guides, supervises, and
permits.<00:19:43.679><c> The</c><00:19:43.800><c> other</c><00:19:44.360><c> is</c><00:19:44.760><c> asking,</c><00:19:45.320><c> they</c><00:19:45.440><c> are</c>

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permits. The other is asking, they are
 

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permits. The other is asking, they are
complying,<00:19:46.320><c> they</c><00:19:46.480><c> are</c><00:19:46.600><c> performing</c><00:19:47.600><c> cuteness,</c>

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complying, they are performing cuteness,
 

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complying, they are performing cuteness,
they<00:19:48.320><c> are</c><00:19:48.640><c> staying</c><00:19:49.200><c> small,</c><00:19:49.960><c> they</c><00:19:50.120><c> are</c><00:19:50.200><c> not</c>

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they are staying small, they are not
 

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they are staying small, they are not
taking<00:19:50.720><c> up</c><00:19:50.880><c> space.</c><00:19:51.640><c> If</c><00:19:51.840><c> you</c><00:19:52.000><c> remember</c><00:19:52.480><c> the</c>

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taking up space. If you remember the
 

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taking up space. If you remember the
game,<00:19:53.160><c> now</c><00:19:53.360><c> I've</c><00:19:53.520><c> got</c><00:19:53.840><c> you,</c><00:19:54.120><c> you</c><00:19:54.440><c> son</c><00:19:54.640><c> of</c><00:19:54.760><c> a</c>

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game, now I've got you, you son of a
 

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game, now I've got you, you son of a
[&nbsp;__&nbsp;]<00:19:55.240><c> from</c><00:19:55.400><c> the</c><00:19:55.480><c> last</c><00:19:55.720><c> video,</c><00:19:56.640><c> think</c><00:19:56.800><c> about</c>

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[&nbsp;__&nbsp;] from the last video, think about
 

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[&nbsp;__&nbsp;] from the last video, think about
what<00:19:57.160><c> happens</c><00:19:57.560><c> when</c><00:19:57.720><c> somebody</c><00:19:58.080><c> who's</c><00:19:58.280><c> been</c>

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what happens when somebody who's been
 

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what happens when somebody who's been
cast<00:19:59.280><c> as</c><00:19:59.400><c> a</c><00:19:59.480><c> permanent</c><00:19:59.880><c> child</c><00:20:00.960><c> decides</c><00:20:01.320><c> one</c>

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cast as a permanent child decides one
 

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cast as a permanent child decides one
day<00:20:01.600><c> to</c><00:20:01.800><c> assert</c><00:20:02.240><c> an</c><00:20:02.400><c> adult</c><00:20:02.680><c> boundary.</c>

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day to assert an adult boundary.
 

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day to assert an adult boundary.
They<00:20:03.840><c> will</c><00:20:04.000><c> be</c><00:20:04.280><c> immediately</c><00:20:04.800><c> punished</c><00:20:05.600><c> for</c>

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They will be immediately punished for
 

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They will be immediately punished for
breaking<00:20:06.200><c> character.</c><00:20:07.280><c> That's</c><00:20:07.760><c> the</c><00:20:07.880><c> trap.</c><00:20:08.400><c> And</c>

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breaking character. That's the trap. And
 

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breaking character. That's the trap. And
the<00:20:08.600><c> TikTok</c><00:20:08.960><c> we</c><00:20:09.080><c> watched</c><00:20:09.880><c> is</c><00:20:10.040><c> literally</c><00:20:10.360><c> this</c>

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the TikTok we watched is literally this
 

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the TikTok we watched is literally this
dynamic.<00:20:11.160><c> It</c><00:20:11.320><c> is</c><00:20:11.520><c> filmed.</c><00:20:11.920><c> It</c><00:20:12.040><c> is</c><00:20:12.160><c> shot</c><00:20:12.440><c> from</c>

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dynamic. It is filmed. It is shot from
 

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dynamic. It is filmed. It is shot from
above.<00:20:13.160><c> It</c><00:20:13.280><c> is</c><00:20:13.440><c> asking</c><00:20:13.760><c> permission.</c><00:20:14.560><c> It</c><00:20:14.680><c> is</c>

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above. It is asking permission. It is
 

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above. It is asking permission. It is
choosing<00:20:15.200><c> items</c><00:20:15.560><c> coded</c><00:20:16.080><c> as</c><00:20:16.200><c> childhood.</c><00:20:17.080><c> It</c><00:20:17.240><c> is</c>

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choosing items coded as childhood. It is
 

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choosing items coded as childhood. It is
the<00:20:17.560><c> camera</c><00:20:18.240><c> itself</c><00:20:18.800><c> puts</c><00:20:19.080><c> the</c><00:20:19.200><c> viewer</c><00:20:19.720><c> in</c><00:20:19.840><c> the</c>

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the camera itself puts the viewer in the
 

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the camera itself puts the viewer in the
parent's<00:20:20.520><c> position.</c><00:20:21.320><c> You</c><00:20:21.520><c> are</c><00:20:21.640><c> looking</c><00:20:22.000><c> down.</c>

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parent's position. You are looking down.
 

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parent's position. You are looking down.
She<00:20:22.960><c> is</c><00:20:23.080><c> looking</c><00:20:23.480><c> up.</c><00:20:24.040><c> That's</c><00:20:24.200><c> not</c><00:20:24.360><c> an</c>

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She is looking up. That's not an
 

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She is looking up. That's not an
accident.<00:20:25.320><c> Now,</c><00:20:25.840><c> I'm</c><00:20:26.560><c> playful.</c>

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accident. Now, I'm playful.
 

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accident. Now, I'm playful.
I<00:20:28.000><c> collect</c><00:20:28.360><c> things.</c><00:20:29.040><c> I</c><00:20:29.160><c> stim.</c><00:20:30.000><c> I</c><00:20:30.120><c> get</c>

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I collect things. I stim. I get
 

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I collect things. I stim. I get
unreasonably<00:20:31.160><c> excited</c><00:20:32.040><c> about</c><00:20:32.360><c> marine</c>

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unreasonably excited about marine
 

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unreasonably excited about marine
biology<00:20:33.160><c> and</c><00:20:33.360><c> cameras</c><00:20:33.880><c> and</c><00:20:34.080><c> video</c><00:20:34.360><c> games.</c><00:20:35.000><c> I</c>

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biology and cameras and video games. I
 

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biology and cameras and video games. I
have<00:20:35.240><c> 15</c><00:20:35.640><c> cats.</c><00:20:36.280><c> 15,</c><00:20:37.000><c> that's</c><00:20:37.160><c> not</c><00:20:37.280><c> a</c><00:20:37.360><c> typo.</c>

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have 15 cats. 15, that's not a typo.
 

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have 15 cats. 15, that's not a typo.
That's<00:20:38.720><c> free</c><00:20:38.960><c> child.</c><00:20:39.520><c> That's</c><00:20:39.760><c> me</c><00:20:40.000><c> choosing</c><00:20:40.480><c> to</c>

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That's free child. That's me choosing to
 

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That's free child. That's me choosing to
be<00:20:40.640><c> joyful</c><00:20:41.120><c> as</c><00:20:41.240><c> an</c><00:20:41.400><c> adult</c><00:20:41.760><c> with</c><00:20:41.960><c> full</c><00:20:42.240><c> agency.</c>

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be joyful as an adult with full agency.
 

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be joyful as an adult with full agency.
Nobody's<00:20:43.480><c> filming</c><00:20:43.760><c> me</c><00:20:43.880><c> from</c><00:20:44.040><c> above</c><00:20:44.280><c> while</c><00:20:44.480><c> I</c>

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Nobody's filming me from above while I
 

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Nobody's filming me from above while I
do<00:20:44.720><c> it.</c><00:20:45.040><c> Nobody</c><00:20:45.800><c> is</c><00:20:46.000><c> asking</c><00:20:46.320><c> me</c><00:20:46.440><c> to</c><00:20:46.600><c> perform</c><00:20:47.080><c> it</c>

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do it. Nobody is asking me to perform it
 

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do it. Nobody is asking me to perform it
for<00:20:47.720><c> their</c><00:20:47.920><c> content.</c><00:20:48.520><c> And</c><00:20:48.600><c> if</c><00:20:48.680><c> they</c><00:20:48.800><c> did,</c><00:20:49.320><c> I'd</c>

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for their content. And if they did, I'd
 

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for their content. And if they did, I'd
tell<00:20:49.680><c> them</c><00:20:49.800><c> to</c><00:20:49.920><c> get</c><00:20:50.120><c> lost,</c><00:20:50.440><c> which</c><00:20:50.600><c> according</c>

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tell them to get lost, which according
 

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tell them to get lost, which according
to<00:20:51.000><c> that</c><00:20:51.200><c> hinge</c><00:20:51.480><c> list</c><00:20:52.120><c> makes</c><00:20:52.360><c> me</c><00:20:52.440><c> too</c><00:20:52.640><c> much</c>

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to that hinge list makes me too much
 

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to that hinge list makes me too much
work.

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work.
 

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work.
&gt;&gt; [laughter]

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
 

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
&gt;&gt; I'm<00:20:54.800><c> not</c><00:20:54.960><c> slightly</c><00:20:55.240><c> autistic.</c><00:20:55.640><c> I'm</c><00:20:55.760><c> autistic</c>

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&gt;&gt; I'm not slightly autistic. I'm autistic
 

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&gt;&gt; I'm not slightly autistic. I'm autistic
AF,<00:20:56.560><c> right?</c>

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AF, right?
 

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AF, right?
Being<00:20:58.440><c> filmed</c><00:20:58.760><c> from</c><00:20:58.880><c> above,</c><00:20:59.840><c> asking</c>

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Being filmed from above, asking
 

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Being filmed from above, asking
permission<00:21:01.040><c> to</c><00:21:01.160><c> buy</c><00:21:01.360><c> juice,</c><00:21:02.040><c> performing</c>

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permission to buy juice, performing
 

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permission to buy juice, performing
cuteness<00:21:02.880><c> for</c><00:21:03.000><c> someone</c><00:21:03.320><c> else's</c><00:21:03.680><c> camera</c><00:21:04.080><c> and</c>

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cuteness for someone else's camera and
 

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cuteness for someone else's camera and
their<00:21:04.440><c> 19</c><00:21:04.840><c> million</c><00:21:05.080><c> viewers.</c>

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their 19 million viewers.
 

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their 19 million viewers.
Someone<00:21:06.280><c> else</c><00:21:06.520><c> is</c><00:21:06.640><c> positioning</c><00:21:07.160><c> you</c><00:21:07.400><c> as</c><00:21:07.520><c> a</c>

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Someone else is positioning you as a
 

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Someone else is positioning you as a
child<00:21:08.040><c> because</c><00:21:08.280><c> the</c><00:21:08.400><c> power</c><00:21:08.800><c> gap</c><00:21:09.480><c> benefits</c>

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child because the power gap benefits
 

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child because the power gap benefits
them.<00:21:10.400><c> They're</c><00:21:10.480><c> doing</c><00:21:10.640><c> it</c><00:21:10.720><c> on</c><00:21:10.840><c> purpose.</c><00:21:11.680><c> In</c><00:21:11.800><c> TA</c>

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them. They're doing it on purpose. In TA
 

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them. They're doing it on purpose. In TA
terms,<00:21:12.880><c> that's</c><00:21:13.320><c> adapted</c><00:21:14.080><c> child.</c><00:21:14.960><c> You</c><00:21:15.080><c> know,</c>

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terms, that's adapted child. You know,
 

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terms, that's adapted child. You know,
this<00:21:15.680><c> parent-child</c><00:21:16.600><c> thing,</c><00:21:17.120><c> controlling</c>

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this parent-child thing, controlling
 

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this parent-child thing, controlling
parent<00:21:18.120><c> to</c><00:21:18.240><c> adapted</c><00:21:18.720><c> child.</c>

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parent to adapted child.
 

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parent to adapted child.
As<00:21:20.320><c> as</c><00:21:20.400><c> literal</c><00:21:20.800><c> adults,</c><00:21:21.480><c> as</c><00:21:21.640><c> legal</c><00:21:21.960><c> adults,</c>

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As as literal adults, as legal adults,
 

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As as literal adults, as legal adults,
and<00:21:22.680><c> they're</c><00:21:22.840><c> acting</c><00:21:23.200><c> as</c><00:21:23.360><c> controlling</c><00:21:23.880><c> parent</c>

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and they're acting as controlling parent
 

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and they're acting as controlling parent
to<00:21:24.480><c> adapted</c><00:21:24.960><c> child.</c><00:21:25.760><c> That's</c><00:21:26.040><c> not</c><00:21:26.240><c> cute.</c>

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to adapted child. That's not cute.
 

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to adapted child. That's not cute.
That's<00:21:27.080><c> a</c><00:21:27.160><c> red</c><00:21:27.440><c> [&nbsp;__&nbsp;]</c><00:21:27.840><c> flag.</c><00:21:28.480><c> One</c><00:21:28.760><c> more</c>

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That's a red [&nbsp;__&nbsp;] flag. One more
 

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That's a red [&nbsp;__&nbsp;] flag. One more
thing<00:21:29.560><c> because</c><00:21:29.880><c> the</c><00:21:30.000><c> timing</c><00:21:30.400><c> of</c><00:21:30.520><c> all</c><00:21:30.680><c> of</c><00:21:30.760><c> this</c>

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thing because the timing of all of this
 

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thing because the timing of all of this
is<00:21:31.480><c> really</c><00:21:31.680><c> worth</c><00:21:31.880><c> noting.</c><00:21:32.560><c> There's</c>

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is really worth noting. There's
 

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is really worth noting. There's
something<00:21:33.000><c> in</c><00:21:33.080><c> the</c><00:21:33.200><c> water</c><00:21:33.520><c> in</c><00:21:33.640><c> March.</c><00:21:34.120><c> I</c><00:21:34.160><c> don't</c>

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something in the water in March. I don't
 

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something in the water in March. I don't
know<00:21:34.400><c> what</c><00:21:34.520><c> to</c><00:21:34.600><c> tell</c><00:21:34.880><c> you.</c><00:21:35.680><c> Because</c><00:21:35.880><c> the</c><00:21:36.000><c> same</c>

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know what to tell you. Because the same
 

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know what to tell you. Because the same
week<00:21:36.920><c> that</c><00:21:37.040><c> this</c><00:21:37.240><c> tweet</c><00:21:37.520><c> went</c><00:21:37.760><c> viral,</c><00:21:38.400><c> a</c>

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week that this tweet went viral, a
 

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week that this tweet went viral, a
leading<00:21:39.000><c> autism</c><00:21:39.400><c> researcher,</c><00:21:40.440><c> Dame</c><00:21:40.880><c> Uta</c>

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leading autism researcher, Dame Uta
 

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leading autism researcher, Dame Uta
Frith,<00:21:42.120><c> gave</c><00:21:42.400><c> an</c><00:21:42.480><c> interview</c><00:21:42.960><c> to</c><00:21:43.080><c> TES</c><00:21:43.800><c> saying</c>

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Frith, gave an interview to TES saying
 

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Frith, gave an interview to TES saying
that<00:21:44.200><c> the</c><00:21:44.320><c> autism</c><00:21:44.640><c> spectrum</c><00:21:45.080><c> is</c><00:21:45.160><c> now</c>

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that the autism spectrum is now
 

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that the autism spectrum is now
collapsed

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collapsed
 

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collapsed
and<00:21:47.240><c> become,</c>

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and become,
 

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and become,
in<00:21:48.440><c> her</c><00:21:48.600><c> words,</c><00:21:49.240><c> completely</c><00:21:49.720><c> meaningless.</c>

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in her words, completely meaningless.
 

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in her words, completely meaningless.
She<00:21:51.120><c> said</c><00:21:51.880><c> that</c><00:21:52.040><c> masking</c><00:21:52.600><c> has</c><00:21:53.000><c> no</c><00:21:53.280><c> scientific</c>

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She said that masking has no scientific
 

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She said that masking has no scientific
basis<00:21:54.360><c> and</c><00:21:54.520><c> she</c><00:21:54.640><c> suggested</c><00:21:55.120><c> that</c>

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basis and she suggested that
 

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basis and she suggested that
late-diagnosed<00:21:55.880><c> autistic</c><00:21:56.240><c> women</c><00:21:56.800><c> might</c><00:21:56.920><c> be</c>

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late-diagnosed autistic women might be
 

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late-diagnosed autistic women might be
better<00:21:57.280><c> labeled</c><00:21:57.680><c> as</c><00:21:57.800><c> hypersensitive</c><00:21:59.000><c> rather</c>

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better labeled as hypersensitive rather
 

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better labeled as hypersensitive rather
than<00:21:59.520><c> autistic.</c><00:22:00.280><c> I</c><00:22:00.320><c> could</c><00:22:00.560><c> cover</c><00:22:00.840><c> Frith</c>

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than autistic. I could cover Frith
 

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than autistic. I could cover Frith
separately<00:22:01.640><c> if</c><00:22:01.920><c> you</c><00:22:02.480><c> think</c><00:22:02.720><c> it's</c><00:22:03.040><c> of</c><00:22:03.240><c> any</c>

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separately if you think it's of any
 

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separately if you think it's of any
value,<00:22:03.760><c> let</c><00:22:03.880><c> me</c><00:22:03.960><c> know</c><00:22:04.280><c> in</c><00:22:04.400><c> the</c><00:22:04.440><c> comments</c>

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value, let me know in the comments
 

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value, let me know in the comments
below.<00:22:05.280><c> The</c><00:22:05.360><c> reason</c><00:22:05.520><c> I'm</c><00:22:05.560><c> bringing</c><00:22:05.720><c> it</c><00:22:05.800><c> up</c>

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below. The reason I'm bringing it up
 

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below. The reason I'm bringing it up
really<00:22:06.080><c> quickly</c><00:22:06.480><c> is</c><00:22:06.600><c> because</c><00:22:06.880><c> the</c><00:22:07.000><c> timing</c>

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really quickly is because the timing
 

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really quickly is because the timing
matters<00:22:08.480><c> because</c><00:22:09.200><c> in</c><00:22:09.320><c> the</c><00:22:09.440><c> same</c><00:22:09.800><c> week</c><00:22:10.400><c> in</c>

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matters because in the same week in
 

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matters because in the same week in
March<00:22:10.840><c> 2026,</c>

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March 2026,
 

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March 2026,
one<00:22:12.840><c> side</c><00:22:13.040><c> of</c><00:22:13.080><c> the</c><00:22:13.160><c> internet</c><00:22:13.520><c> tells</c><00:22:13.760><c> autistic</c>

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one side of the internet tells autistic
 

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one side of the internet tells autistic
women<00:22:14.280><c> that</c><00:22:14.400><c> their</c><00:22:14.520><c> autism</c><00:22:14.800><c> is</c><00:22:14.920><c> cute</c><00:22:15.160><c> and</c><00:22:15.240><c> that</c>

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women that their autism is cute and that
 

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women that their autism is cute and that
they<00:22:15.400><c> want</c><00:22:15.560><c> to</c><00:22:15.640><c> date</c><00:22:15.960><c> it,</c><00:22:16.400><c> and</c><00:22:16.520><c> the</c><00:22:16.640><c> other</c><00:22:16.960><c> side</c>

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they want to date it, and the other side
 

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they want to date it, and the other side
is<00:22:17.320><c> telling</c><00:22:17.600><c> them</c><00:22:17.760><c> that</c><00:22:17.880><c> their</c><00:22:18.040><c> autism</c><00:22:18.360><c> isn't</c>

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is telling them that their autism isn't
 

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is telling them that their autism isn't
real.<00:22:19.440><c> Now,</c>

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real. Now,
 

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real. Now,
both<00:22:20.880><c> sides</c><00:22:21.440><c> do</c><00:22:21.720><c> exactly</c><00:22:22.200><c> the</c><00:22:22.280><c> same</c><00:22:22.520><c> thing</c>

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both sides do exactly the same thing
 

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both sides do exactly the same thing
from<00:22:23.360><c> different</c><00:22:23.679><c> directions.</c><00:22:24.640><c> They</c><00:22:24.760><c> tell</c>

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from different directions. They tell
 

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from different directions. They tell
autistic<00:22:25.440><c> women</c><00:22:25.960><c> that</c><00:22:26.080><c> their</c><00:22:26.160><c> experience</c>

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autistic women that their experience
 

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autistic women that their experience
isn't<00:22:27.600><c> theirs.</c>

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isn't theirs.
 

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isn't theirs.
Isn't<00:22:30.240><c> theirs</c><00:22:30.520><c> to</c><00:22:30.600><c> define.</c>

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Isn't theirs to define.
 

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Isn't theirs to define.
It<00:22:32.080><c> is,</c><00:22:32.679><c> end</c><00:22:32.920><c> of.</c><00:22:33.280><c> My</c><00:22:33.440><c> friend</c><00:22:33.760><c> Meg</c><00:22:34.080><c> at</c><00:22:34.320><c> I'm</c>

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It is, end of. My friend Meg at I'm
 

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It is, end of. My friend Meg at I'm
autistic<00:22:34.880><c> now</c><00:22:35.120><c> what</c><00:22:35.320><c> made</c><00:22:35.520><c> a</c><00:22:35.600><c> brilliant</c><00:22:36.000><c> video</c>

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autistic now what made a brilliant video
 

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autistic now what made a brilliant video
recently<00:22:37.040><c> about</c><00:22:37.400><c> misinformation</c><00:22:38.480><c> coming</c>

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recently about misinformation coming
 

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recently about misinformation coming
from<00:22:38.880><c> inside</c><00:22:39.200><c> the</c><00:22:39.280><c> autistic</c><00:22:39.679><c> community</c><00:22:40.080><c> on</c>

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from inside the autistic community on
 

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from inside the autistic community on
TikTok.<00:22:41.040><c> She</c><00:22:41.200><c> looked</c><00:22:41.400><c> at</c><00:22:41.520><c> autistic</c><00:22:41.920><c> creators</c>

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TikTok. She looked at autistic creators
 

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TikTok. She looked at autistic creators
making<00:22:42.960><c> bad</c><00:22:43.200><c> generalizations,</c><00:22:44.400><c> spreading</c>

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making bad generalizations, spreading
 

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making bad generalizations, spreading
myths,<00:22:45.120><c> that</c><00:22:45.360><c> sort</c><00:22:45.520><c> of</c><00:22:45.600><c> thing.</c><00:22:45.960><c> Go</c><00:22:46.080><c> watch</c><00:22:46.360><c> it.</c>

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myths, that sort of thing. Go watch it.
 

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myths, that sort of thing. Go watch it.
It's<00:22:46.880><c> really</c><00:22:47.120><c> good</c><00:22:47.440><c> and</c><00:22:47.560><c> I'll</c><00:22:47.679><c> link</c><00:22:47.880><c> it</c><00:22:48.000><c> below.</c>

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It's really good and I'll link it below.
 

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It's really good and I'll link it below.
This<00:22:49.080><c> video</c><00:22:50.120><c> is</c><00:22:50.240><c> the</c><00:22:50.400><c> other</c><00:22:50.600><c> side</c><00:22:50.800><c> of</c><00:22:50.880><c> that</c>

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This video is the other side of that
 

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This video is the other side of that
coin.<00:22:51.760><c> So,</c><00:22:51.960><c> Meg</c><00:22:52.200><c> covered</c><00:22:52.560><c> what</c><00:22:52.720><c> happens</c><00:22:53.120><c> when</c>

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coin. So, Meg covered what happens when
 

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coin. So, Meg covered what happens when
misinformation<00:22:54.120><c> comes</c><00:22:54.400><c> from</c><00:22:54.720><c> inside</c><00:22:55.160><c> the</c>

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misinformation comes from inside the
 

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misinformation comes from inside the
community.<00:22:56.240><c> This</c><00:22:56.480><c> is</c><00:22:56.600><c> what</c><00:22:56.760><c> happens</c><00:22:57.280><c> when</c>

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community. This is what happens when
 

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community. This is what happens when
people<00:22:57.880><c> outside</c><00:22:58.360><c> the</c><00:22:58.440><c> community</c><00:22:58.840><c> look</c><00:22:59.040><c> in</c><00:22:59.560><c> and</c>

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people outside the community look in and
 

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people outside the community look in and
decide<00:23:00.120><c> that</c><00:23:00.200><c> their</c><00:23:00.400><c> autism</c><00:23:00.880><c> is</c><00:23:01.000><c> an</c><00:23:01.120><c> aesthetic</c>

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decide that their autism is an aesthetic
 

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decide that their autism is an aesthetic
that<00:23:02.160><c> they</c><00:23:02.280><c> can</c><00:23:02.440><c> consume.</c>

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that they can consume.
 

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that they can consume.
If<00:23:04.720><c> you</c><00:23:05.080><c> are</c><00:23:05.480><c> autistic</c><00:23:06.040><c> and</c><00:23:06.560><c> you've</c><00:23:06.800><c> seen</c>

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If you are autistic and you've seen
 

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If you are autistic and you've seen
these<00:23:07.240><c> dating</c><00:23:07.560><c> profiles</c><00:23:08.120><c> or</c><00:23:08.600><c> you've</c><00:23:08.800><c> been</c><00:23:08.960><c> in</c>

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these dating profiles or you've been in
 

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these dating profiles or you've been in
a<00:23:09.080><c> relationship</c><00:23:09.800><c> where</c><00:23:09.880><c> you</c><00:23:10.000><c> felt</c><00:23:10.200><c> more</c><00:23:10.320><c> like</c>

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a relationship where you felt more like
 

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a relationship where you felt more like
a<00:23:10.520><c> project</c><00:23:11.200><c> than</c><00:23:11.320><c> a</c><00:23:11.400><c> partner,</c>

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a project than a partner,
 

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a project than a partner,
more<00:23:13.040><c> managed</c><00:23:13.679><c> than</c><00:23:13.880><c> met,</c>

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more managed than met,
 

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more managed than met,
help<00:23:15.480><c> me</c><00:23:15.600><c> come</c><00:23:15.800><c> up</c><00:23:15.880><c> with</c><00:23:16.000><c> a</c><00:23:16.080><c> good</c>

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help me come up with a good
 

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help me come up with a good
alliteration,<00:23:16.920><c> please.</c>

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alliteration, please.
 

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alliteration, please.
Uh<00:23:18.320><c> language</c><00:23:18.800><c> autists,</c><00:23:19.560><c> it</c><00:23:19.679><c> drop</c><00:23:19.880><c> it</c><00:23:19.960><c> in</c><00:23:20.040><c> the</c>

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Uh language autists, it drop it in the
 

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Uh language autists, it drop it in the
comments.<00:23:20.760><c> What</c><00:23:20.920><c> other</c><00:23:21.040><c> things</c><00:23:21.240><c> can</c><00:23:21.360><c> you</c>

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comments. What other things can you
 

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comments. What other things can you
think<00:23:21.720><c> of?</c>

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think of?
 

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think of?
You're<00:23:22.880><c> not</c><00:23:23.040><c> imagining</c><00:23:23.560><c> it,</c><00:23:23.760><c> by</c><00:23:23.920><c> the</c><00:23:24.000><c> way.</c><00:23:24.400><c> The</c>

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You're not imagining it, by the way. The
 

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You're not imagining it, by the way. The
pattern<00:23:25.200><c> is</c><00:23:25.720><c> very</c><00:23:25.960><c> well</c><00:23:26.080><c> documented.</c><00:23:27.320><c> The</c>

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pattern is very well documented. The
 

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pattern is very well documented. The
research<00:23:27.800><c> backs</c><00:23:28.080><c> it</c><00:23:28.200><c> up</c><00:23:28.440><c> and</c><00:23:28.760><c> and</c><00:23:28.880><c> you</c><00:23:28.960><c> deserve</c>

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research backs it up and and you deserve
 

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research backs it up and and you deserve
adult-to-adult<00:23:30.440><c> relationships</c>

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adult-to-adult relationships
 

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adult-to-adult relationships
in<00:23:32.080><c> all</c><00:23:32.320><c> of</c><00:23:32.400><c> your</c><00:23:32.480><c> relationships</c><00:23:33.280><c> and</c><00:23:33.440><c> you</c>

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in all of your relationships and you
 

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in all of your relationships and you
always<00:23:34.160><c> did.</c><00:23:35.000><c> If</c><00:23:35.160><c> you're</c><00:23:35.360><c> a</c><00:23:35.400><c> man</c><00:23:35.679><c> and</c><00:23:35.760><c> you're</c>

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always did. If you're a man and you're
 

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always did. If you're a man and you're
watching<00:23:36.160><c> this</c><00:23:36.400><c> and</c><00:23:36.560><c> you've</c><00:23:36.679><c> ever</c><00:23:36.840><c> thought</c>

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watching this and you've ever thought
 

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watching this and you've ever thought
that<00:23:37.200><c> you</c><00:23:37.320><c> want</c><00:23:37.520><c> a</c><00:23:37.560><c> slightly</c><00:23:37.880><c> autistic</c>

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that you want a slightly autistic
 

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that you want a slightly autistic
girlfriend,

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girlfriend,
 

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girlfriend,
I'm<00:23:39.800><c> not</c><00:23:39.880><c> going</c><00:23:40.000><c> to</c><00:23:40.080><c> dunk</c><00:23:40.360><c> on</c><00:23:40.520><c> you.</c>

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I'm not going to dunk on you.
 

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I'm not going to dunk on you.
I'm<00:23:41.679><c> going</c><00:23:41.840><c> to</c><00:23:41.920><c> ask</c><00:23:42.120><c> you</c><00:23:42.200><c> something</c><00:23:42.520><c> instead.</c>

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I'm going to ask you something instead.
 

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I'm going to ask you something instead.
Would<00:23:43.240><c> you</c><00:23:43.360><c> still</c><00:23:43.600><c> want</c><00:23:43.840><c> her</c><00:23:44.040><c> if</c><00:23:44.200><c> she</c><00:23:44.320><c> came</c>

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Would you still want her if she came
 

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Would you still want her if she came
with<00:23:45.240><c> meltdowns,</c>

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with meltdowns,
 

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with meltdowns,
um<00:23:47.000><c> burnout,</c><00:23:48.000><c> and</c><00:23:48.520><c> sensory</c><00:23:49.240><c> issues,</c><00:23:50.160><c> you</c>

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um burnout, and sensory issues, you
 

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um burnout, and sensory issues, you
know,<00:23:50.520><c> sensory</c><00:23:51.080><c> overload,</c>

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know, sensory overload,
 

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know, sensory overload,
strong<00:23:53.080><c> boundaries?</c><00:23:53.560><c> Maybe</c><00:23:53.720><c> she's</c><00:23:53.880><c> super</c>

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strong boundaries? Maybe she's super
 

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strong boundaries? Maybe she's super
sensory<00:23:54.440><c> seeking.</c>

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sensory seeking.
 

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sensory seeking.
&gt;&gt; [laughter]

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
 

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&gt;&gt; [laughter]
&gt;&gt; What<00:23:57.200><c> if</c><00:23:57.320><c> she</c><00:23:57.440><c> told</c><00:23:57.760><c> you</c><00:23:58.120><c> no</c><00:23:58.600><c> and</c><00:23:58.800><c> meant</c><00:23:59.120><c> it?</c>

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&gt;&gt; What if she told you no and meant it?
 

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&gt;&gt; What if she told you no and meant it?
And<00:23:59.760><c> if</c><00:23:59.840><c> she</c><00:23:59.960><c> needed</c><00:24:00.240><c> the</c><00:24:00.320><c> lights</c><00:24:00.600><c> off</c><00:24:00.880><c> and</c>

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And if she needed the lights off and
 

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And if she needed the lights off and
couldn't<00:24:01.520><c> go</c><00:24:01.600><c> to</c><00:24:01.679><c> your</c><00:24:01.800><c> mate's</c><00:24:02.040><c> party?</c><00:24:02.520><c> If</c>

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couldn't go to your mate's party? If
 

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couldn't go to your mate's party? If
sometimes<00:24:03.600><c> she</c><00:24:03.720><c> couldn't</c><00:24:03.960><c> speak</c><00:24:04.520><c> and</c><00:24:04.640><c> just</c>

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sometimes she couldn't speak and just
 

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sometimes she couldn't speak and just
needed<00:24:04.960><c> you</c><00:24:05.040><c> to</c><00:24:05.120><c> sit</c><00:24:05.320><c> with</c><00:24:05.440><c> her</c><00:24:05.520><c> quietly</c><00:24:05.800><c> for</c>

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needed you to sit with her quietly for
 

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needed you to sit with her quietly for
an<00:24:06.000><c> hour?</c>

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an hour?
 

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an hour?
If<00:24:08.040><c> the</c><00:24:08.160><c> answer</c><00:24:08.440><c> is</c><00:24:08.960><c> actually</c><00:24:09.600><c> uh</c><00:24:09.920><c> probably</c>

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If the answer is actually uh probably
 

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If the answer is actually uh probably
[laughter]<00:24:10.520><c> not,</c><00:24:11.480><c> then</c><00:24:11.679><c> what</c><00:24:11.800><c> you</c><00:24:11.880><c> wanted</c>

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[laughter] not, then what you wanted
 

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[laughter] not, then what you wanted
wasn't<00:24:12.480><c> a</c><00:24:12.520><c> partner.</c><00:24:13.480><c> It</c><00:24:13.760><c> it</c><00:24:13.960><c> it's</c><00:24:14.120><c> a</c><00:24:14.160><c> character</c>

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wasn't a partner. It it it's a character
 

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wasn't a partner. It it it's a character
in<00:24:14.760><c> a</c><00:24:14.800><c> story</c><00:24:15.080><c> about</c><00:24:15.360><c> you.</c>

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in a story about you.
 

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in a story about you.
And<00:24:16.600><c> and</c><00:24:17.160><c> autistic</c><00:24:17.560><c> women</c><00:24:17.760><c> are</c><00:24:17.840><c> people,</c>

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And and autistic women are people,
 

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And and autistic women are people,
obviously,<00:24:18.720><c> with</c><00:24:18.880><c> the</c><00:24:18.960><c> same</c><00:24:19.200><c> right</c><00:24:19.520><c> to</c><00:24:19.560><c> be</c><00:24:19.640><c> met</c>

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obviously, with the same right to be met
 

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obviously, with the same right to be met
as<00:24:20.000><c> equals</c><00:24:20.440><c> as</c><00:24:20.679><c> adults</c><00:24:21.560><c> that</c><00:24:21.679><c> everybody</c><00:24:22.040><c> else</c>

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as equals as adults that everybody else
 

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as equals as adults that everybody else
has.<00:24:23.000><c> Romantic</c><00:24:23.400><c> relationships</c><00:24:23.760><c> are</c><00:24:23.840><c> based</c><00:24:24.080><c> on</c>

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has. Romantic relationships are based on
 

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has. Romantic relationships are based on
stable<00:24:25.120><c> adult-to-adult</c><00:24:25.251><c> [music]</c>

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stable adult-to-adult [music]
 

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stable adult-to-adult [music]
communication.

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communication.
 

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communication.
That<00:24:29.440><c> is</c><00:24:29.600><c> a</c><00:24:29.679><c> base</c><00:24:30.000><c> requirement</c><00:24:30.560><c> for</c><00:24:30.679><c> intimacy,</c>

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That is a base requirement for intimacy,
 

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That is a base requirement for intimacy,
for<00:24:31.560><c> true</c><00:24:31.880><c> intimacy.</c><00:24:32.456><c> [music]</c>

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for true intimacy. [music]
 

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for true intimacy. [music]
And<00:24:33.200><c> on</c><00:24:33.320><c> that</c><00:24:33.520><c> note,</c><00:24:34.520><c> don't</c><00:24:34.760><c> forget</c><00:24:35.000><c> the</c>

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And on that note, don't forget the
 

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And on that note, don't forget the
blessed<00:24:35.360><c> giveaway.</c><00:24:36.120><c> The</c><00:24:36.400><c> link</c><00:24:36.760><c> is</c><00:24:36.880><c> in</c><00:24:37.000><c> the</c>

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blessed giveaway. The link is in the
 

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blessed giveaway. The link is in the
description<00:24:38.160><c> and</c><00:24:38.320><c> the</c><00:24:38.400><c> pinned</c><00:24:38.640><c> comment.</c>

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description and the pinned comment.
 

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description and the pinned comment.
Everyone<00:24:39.960><c> who</c><00:24:40.040><c> enters</c><00:24:40.280><c> wins.</c><00:24:41.120><c> Stim</c><00:24:41.360><c> the</c>

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Everyone who enters wins. Stim the
 

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Everyone who enters wins. Stim the
subscribe<00:24:41.800><c> button</c><00:24:42.080><c> if</c><00:24:42.200><c> you</c><00:24:42.280><c> haven't</c><00:24:42.560><c> already.</c>

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subscribe button if you haven't already.
 

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The Scratching Post Discord community is
 

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The Scratching Post Discord community is
linked<00:24:45.480><c> below.</c><00:24:46.280><c> The</c><00:24:46.360><c> Patreon's</c><00:24:46.760><c> there,</c><00:24:46.920><c> too,</c>

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linked below. The Patreon's there, too,
 

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linked below. The Patreon's there, too,
if<00:24:47.240><c> you'd</c><00:24:47.320><c> like</c><00:24:47.440><c> to</c><00:24:47.480><c> support</c><00:24:47.679><c> the</c><00:24:47.760><c> channel.</c>

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if you'd like to support the channel.
 

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if you'd like to support the channel.
And<00:24:48.280><c> if</c><00:24:48.360><c> this</c><00:24:48.480><c> video</c><00:24:48.720><c> helped</c><00:24:48.960><c> you</c><00:24:49.040><c> understand</c>

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And if this video helped you understand
 

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And if this video helped you understand
something<00:24:50.000><c> or</c><00:24:50.120><c> gave</c><00:24:50.320><c> you</c><00:24:50.440><c> some</c><00:24:50.600><c> language,</c>

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something or gave you some language,
 

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something or gave you some language,
perhaps,<00:24:51.480><c> for</c><00:24:52.080><c> something</c><00:24:52.440><c> that</c><00:24:52.560><c> you've</c><00:24:52.640><c> been</c>

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perhaps, for something that you've been
 

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perhaps, for something that you've been
feeling,<00:24:53.200><c> please</c><00:24:53.400><c> share</c><00:24:53.679><c> it.</c><00:24:53.840><c> That's</c><00:24:54.040><c> the</c>

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feeling, please share it. That's the
 

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feeling, please share it. That's the
single<00:24:54.360><c> most</c><00:24:54.600><c> useful</c><00:24:54.880><c> thing</c><00:24:55.040><c> you</c><00:24:55.120><c> can</c><00:24:55.240><c> do</c><00:24:55.440><c> to</c>

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single most useful thing you can do to
 

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single most useful thing you can do to
help<00:24:55.640><c> the</c><00:24:55.720><c> channel.</c><00:24:56.640><c> Thank</c><00:24:56.840><c> you</c><00:24:57.000><c> so</c><00:24:57.120><c> much</c><00:24:57.280><c> for</c>

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help the channel. Thank you so much for
 

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help the channel. Thank you so much for
watching.<00:24:57.880><c> Take</c><00:24:58.040><c> care</c><00:24:58.200><c> of</c><00:24:58.280><c> yourselves</c>

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watching. Take care of yourselves
 

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watching. Take care of yourselves
and<00:24:59.760><c> I'll</c><00:24:59.920><c> see</c><00:25:00.160><c> you</c><00:25:00.360><c> in</c><00:25:00.520><c> the</c><00:25:00.600><c> next</c><00:25:00.840><c> one.</c><00:25:01.400><c> Bye</c>

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and I'll see you in the next one. Bye
 

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and I'll see you in the next one. Bye
for<00:25:01.640><c> now.</c>

