[0:00] Hey babe, I'm going to help you with Hey babe, I'm going to help you with Hey babe, I'm going to help you with everything over the holidays. Okay, you everything over the holidays. Okay, you everything over the holidays. Okay, you don't have to worry. I'm sorry. What? I don't have to worry. I'm sorry. What? I don't have to worry. I'm sorry. What? I don't want you to feel like everything's don't want you to feel like everything's don't want you to feel like everything's on your shoulders. I'm going to help on your shoulders. I'm going to help on your shoulders. I'm going to help you. Help me do what exactly? you. Help me do what exactly? you. Help me do what exactly? Everything. Packing and planning for Everything. Packing and planning for Everything. Packing and planning for visiting your family, prepping food for visiting your family, prepping food for visiting your family, prepping food for when people come over, buying gifts for when people come over, buying gifts for when people come over, buying gifts for the kids. Just make me a list of what the kids. Just make me a list of what the kids. Just make me a list of what you need help with and I'm on it. Well, you need help with and I'm on it. Well, you need help with and I'm on it. Well, hold on. That doesn't seem fair at all. hold on. That doesn't seem fair at all. hold on. That doesn't seem fair at all. Why am I in charge of everything? You're Why am I in charge of everything? You're Why am I in charge of everything? You're not in charge of everything. I just told not in charge of everything. I just told not in charge of everything. I just told you I'm going to help you. Just make me you I'm going to help you. Just make me you I'm going to help you. Just make me a list. Why am I making the list? a list. Why am I making the list? a list. Why am I making the list? Because how am I supposed to know what Because how am I supposed to know what Because how am I supposed to know what you need help with if you don't tell me? you need help with if you don't tell me? you need help with if you don't tell me? Are you hearing yourself? I mean, you Are you hearing yourself? I mean, you Are you hearing yourself? I mean, you don't sound very grateful for me trying don't sound very grateful for me trying don't sound very grateful for me trying to take things off your plate. I'm going to take things off your plate. I'm going to take things off your plate. I'm going to wash the kids for you. I'm going to [0:30] to wash the kids for you. I'm going to to wash the kids for you. I'm going to do the dishes for you. Why are you do the dishes for you. Why are you do the dishes for you. Why are you saying it like that? Those are your saying it like that? Those are your saying it like that? Those are your jobs, too. You're not doing them for me. jobs, too. You're not doing them for me. jobs, too. You're not doing them for me. I don't understand why you're getting so I don't understand why you're getting so I don't understand why you're getting so upset. I'm making things less stressful upset. I'm making things less stressful upset. I'm making things less stressful for you. You're making it more stressful for you. You're making it more stressful for you. You're making it more stressful by making me like the project manager of by making me like the project manager of by making me like the project manager of all this. Really? Yeah. And now it's my all this. Really? Yeah. And now it's my all this. Really? Yeah. And now it's my job to come up with a list and then make job to come up with a list and then make job to come up with a list and then make sure you're doing your tasks. That would sure you're doing your tasks. That would sure you're doing your tasks. That would be exhausting. Hm. I think we both just be exhausting. Hm. I think we both just be exhausting. Hm. I think we both just need to understand what needs to get need to understand what needs to get need to understand what needs to get done around here and then divide up done around here and then divide up done around here and then divide up chores equally. That's a good idea, but chores equally. That's a good idea, but chores equally. That's a good idea, but I tend to forget and get sidetracked. I tend to forget and get sidetracked. I tend to forget and get sidetracked. Can you just remind me when you want me Can you just remind me when you want me Can you just remind me when you want me to do mine? No. It's your job to to do mine? No. It's your job to to do mine? No. It's your job to remember your own tasks. Okay, I guess remember your own tasks. Okay, I guess remember your own tasks. Okay, I guess let's go over all the chores so we can let's go over all the chores so we can let's go over all the chores so we can divide them up equally. You start naming [1:01] divide them up equally. You start naming divide them up equally. You start naming them, I'll write them down. Well, um them, I'll write them down. Well, um them, I'll write them down. Well, um just start thinking of all the things just start thinking of all the things just start thinking of all the things you did last year and we'll go from you did last year and we'll go from you did last year and we'll go from there. You got um we could It's okay. I'll wait. Number one. Ready when you are.