Hey babe, I'm going to help you with
everything over the holidays. Okay, you
don't have to worry. I'm sorry. What? I
don't want you to feel like everything's
on your shoulders. I'm going to help
you. Help me do what exactly?
Everything. Packing and planning for
visiting your family, prepping food for
when people come over, buying gifts for
the kids. Just make me a list of what
you need help with and I'm on it. Well,
hold on. That doesn't seem fair at all.
Why am I in charge of everything? You're
not in charge of everything. I just told
you I'm going to help you. Just make me
a list. Why am I making the list?
Because how am I supposed to know what
you need help with if you don't tell me?
Are you hearing yourself? I mean, you
don't sound very grateful for me trying
to take things off your plate. I'm going
to wash the kids for you. I'm going to
do the dishes for you. Why are you
saying it like that? Those are your
jobs, too. You're not doing them for me.
I don't understand why you're getting so
upset. I'm making things less stressful
for you. You're making it more stressful
by making me like the project manager of
all this. Really? Yeah. And now it's my
job to come up with a list and then make
sure you're doing your tasks. That would
be exhausting. Hm. I think we both just
need to understand what needs to get
done around here and then divide up
chores equally. That's a good idea, but
I tend to forget and get sidetracked.
Can you just remind me when you want me
to do mine? No. It's your job to
remember your own tasks. Okay, I guess
let's go over all the chores so we can
divide them up equally. You start naming
them, I'll write them down. Well, um
just start thinking of all the things
you did last year and we'll go from
there. You got um we could
It's okay. I'll wait. Number one.
Ready when you are.